this however means that you want to bring back the shackles and re-institute slavery. after all, "states rights" is just code for racism, and thus all discussion of "rights", even personal rights, is racist.
also, Racist.
just in case you missed it.
i must say generally you are quite sensible, but where i disagree is the extent of the "consent" argument.
if i join a club, and that club's rules say "No Fapping In The Shitter" and i insist that jacking it in the dook hut is mandatory for my personal fulfillment, then i need to lobby to change the rules, find another club, or abide by the rules about jerking it in the crapper, and remain unfulfilled.
simply picking and choosing which rules one will or will not follow in a society is a recipe for collapse of the society, and will result in the destruction of civilization, just like masturbating in the toilet.