is weed a sexual enhancer?

missnu

missnu

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Apparently I make men insecure, or I keep picking insecure men full of false bravado...
I can never tell if the problem is with me, or with him...
I feel like it can go either way...
 
missnu

missnu

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anyway...that is enough of that...it is a hopeless situation and we have tried all there is to try...so quick someone let's talk about something in your life that sux.
 
Shannon Alexander

Shannon Alexander

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Yeah... Especially when you were a slacker through all your younger years then you get a job, get a medical condition and lose your job... The shit that your family gives you... all I can say is wow...
 
april

april

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Aww missnu his confidence (or lack of) is the problem not u my dear(men needs jobs, well they should work, everyone should give u a sense of importance , accomplishment) I dated a guy who had problems staying hard :( It made me feel like i was not attractive or something, and the few times he did get hard it didn't last, i keept telling him we could do other things, and he was overthinking it way too much. Imagine telling urself "don't blow" yet it feels so damn good, ya ur just that hot lol it's easier to accept that way:)

Maybe try the no penis game. Next 2 weeks no intercourse, only foreplay, tell him u need more sexualy, if he listens and wants to give u more his issues are minor, but if he rsfuses i say tell him he has 1 month to get a job and 2 to find another place. You don't have to settle if ur not happy, please don't :(

Seriously pm me anytime if u need a lady to chat with, nothing is tabu , i'm an open and ready to listen if u need to vent or chat :)
 
rowlman

rowlman

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Some strains are definitely sex enhancers if thats the mood your looking for. The blueberry I grow seems to set the mood....... if not, roofie the bitch.
 
drolove

drolove

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missnu said:
and last week my vibrator broke...so no orgasms for me and I just think it is unfair...totally unfair...I sleep with him and he gets off...I get what? a mess...that is what...nothing but a goddamn mess!
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lol come on your just being lazy, you dont have to a vibrator to get off
 
missnu

missnu

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He has a job...a good job...I am the one with no job...it costs more for daycare than I make working at the jobs that will hire me...lol.
That is where he is topnotch...making sure we have what we need...unless it is me, when I am not wearing clothes...
 
cmbajr

cmbajr

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Always works for me... I got my fiancée to do anal for the first time on weed and it felt better when I was high than when I was sober... (her taking it... Not me I was the pitcher...) just didn't want you all confused lol... I say it iscuz all the girls I smoke with always need to get some dick after smoking...
 
UncleBuck

UncleBuck

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i hope chanice doesn't read this, but i've sometimes gotten myself almost there (without her knowing) and then had her go down on me so that i blow a minute later and convince her that she's just that good. i mean, she does give awesome head, but when you give someone a boost of confidence like that and make them feel like a goddess, your chances of getting head upon polite request at other times is always increased.

use this tip for good, not evil.
 
april

april

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missnu said:
He has a job...a good job...I am the one with no job...it costs more for daycare than I make working at the jobs that will hire me...lol.
That is where he is topnotch...making sure we have what we need...unless it is me, when I am not wearing clothes...
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Sorry my bad i thought u said he didn't work. Hmmm i'm stumped, unfortunatly some men just don't last long, but the ones i know with this "issue" usualy balance it out with oral, toys or even just a brk between rounds, u playing with urself does not get him hard again? Dude i dunno what to say, a healthy happy sex life is a major part of a relationship, well for me it is. I've recently stopped dating a guy who just sucked in bed, i gave him a few chances but i'm not gonna force myself to enjoy it if he aint that good. Plus his penis lacked in the thickness dept.... booo to pencil penis, i don't care how long it is, i'm all about girth.

Having a horse penis at ur disposal that does not satisfy u is the ultimate let down :(
 
april

april

Pickle Queen
UncleBuck said:
i hope chanice doesn't read this, but i've sometimes gotten myself almost there (without her knowing) and then had her go down on me so that i blow a minute later and convince her that she's just that good. i mean, she does give awesome head, but when you give someone a boost of confidence like that and make them feel like a goddess, your chances of getting head upon polite request at other times is always increased.

use this tip for good, not evil.
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LOL damn i'm never sucking penis again.......



LOL who am i kidding, and who are u kidding, as women we know this ;) rflmao

But i like ur approach, i'm sure ur lady luvs ya to bits.
 
Jimmyjonestoo

Jimmyjonestoo

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missnu said:
You know the talking only makes it worse..he has that dreaded issue of most men, PE...pretty much he gets off like a streak of lightning while I am just left sitting there somewhat confused...He can't seem to help it...he tries really hard...but it never works out and I am tired of 3-5 minute sex sessions...
I mean after awhile you know what will happen so just why keep doing this...ya know...
We've talked about it, and then I looked it up only to find the best advice is apparently to not talk about it...His dr. gave him some prozac, but it never helped with it...I guess it isn't really supposed to...we were just hoping to use an unwanted side effect as our main effect...anyway doesn't matter...
And he acts like I am supposed to initiate sex because he doesn't seem to know how, but if I start it, then I am literally left with nothing...I don't even get the foreplay if I seek the sex...it's like oh well she must be turned on...let's pump here for about 12 and a half strokes, and we're good...thanks honey and goodnight...
I was alright with it for awhile...no not really I mean as I said we have talked and talked about it...to no avail. Perhaps it is something wrong with me... but I have had good sexual relationships previously...just not with the men I end up marrying...I should just stop marrying guys that I don't like sleeping with...that would probably fix it....but it is obviously too late for that...
Is there something I can slip him that will cause him to need more than the aforementioned 12.5 strokes to finish...? Like the opposite of a date rape drug...like a date can't get off pill or something...?
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Someone needs a tongue lashing.
 
Urca

Urca

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missnu said:
and last week my vibrator broke...so no orgasms for me and I just think it is unfair...totally unfair...I sleep with him and he gets off...I get what? a mess...that is what...nothing but a goddamn mess!
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i know how you feel. to get someone off only to be left with nothing because he cant do it for you, or in my case refuses to do it for you. stay strong, i know how much it hurts and makes you feel really bad :)
 
R

Refusedpanda

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missnu said:
Hmmm...another interesting fact that you April could already guess if you got the gist of my bitching...he doesn't go down either...lol hahaahahahahahahaaaaaa....
sometimes you have to laugh while you cry, or people will just think you are sad...
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a guy that doesn't go down on his chick is worthless. ive always said the key for a guy to keep a chick is to be able to go down for as long as she can take it. my ex would make me go down on her all days of the month. ive earned my red wings lol
 
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