He can get hard all day long, but we have tried viagra as well...the Dr said the Viagra wasn't what we needed, but we wanted to try anyway...and we tried, and isn't what he needs...SSRI's in low doses are sometimes used to treat Premature Ejaculation...PE is a good bit different than ED...he gets the erection, but he is very very very quick to cum...I feel sure that there are things he could do to help, but either he isn't doing them, or they aren't working...
I have pretty much dealt with the fact that he will never ever possibly ever have a chance in hell of satisfying me now...I am a grudge holder...you only get so many chances to not fuck something up, and then my mind says enough--I hate you. All the info I find about it pretty much says that I can't harass him to do the exercises, or talk about it a whole lot at all, without making it worse...I've made him worse by dealing with it...just taking it in stride and going along for the joy of his company, but now he just acts like oh well, it is what it is...so I pretty much feel like after sex he is just like "hey! Fuck you and the fact that you would like to cum..." and like I said, after you mess it up so much I don't even get turned on anymore, because I know it will always be the same...and because I have lost all physical connection with him, I find the rest of it is slipping..the little things that used to be minor annoyances are now just like GTFO!!!