If you have a baby, and kinda don't want it...

[jammin screw]

it sounds crazy to me too, but i think its a hell of alot better then killing it, or throwing it in a dumpster etc... abortions to me i dont know if im for it or against it........ if its early then i guess..... but damn idk, i used to not have a problem with it...... but now im starting to rethink.... if people dont want a baby do something to stop the reproduction processw, pills, shot, something, or jus have protected sex..... having a baby now is like a fad, people forgot about the responsibilities and what having a baby is all about, and proper raising techniques, some people do it, some people dont, and to me it seems alot better when your actual ly ready to have a kid and/or accept before hand everything that comes with it so u are prepared and in the right state mentally financially and everyother ally(lol) and aspect........... sometimes you dont know the time though when having a kid, lotta times it just happened/s, but whatever jus be prepared and accept it and know what your gona do for the better, i tip my hat to everyone who andled their business and is going to no matter the situation with theirs,

 

[stonerman]

Yea, most women that don't want to have a baby will use protection in the first place in order to prevent that, If it does happen by mistake abortion is the other answer. I have heard of babies being found in all sorts of random places, dumpsters, toilets, door steps, all abandoned by their mother. To get rid of something after it is alive and shares the same dna as you would be a very difficult decision. Do abortions cost money? Maybe a lot of mothers cannot afford to get an abortion. People have in the past tried to sell kids.

 

[medicalmaryjane]

u have an abortion when u find out you're pregnant. people don't carry a baby for 9 months to decide they don't want it. people give up disabled babies all the time but healthy babies are in demand. not sure why, i sure as hell don't want one lol

 

[Ringsixty]

Drop them of @ the White house.

 

[Finshaggy]

u have an abortion when u find out you're pregnant. people don't carry a baby for 9 months to decide they don't want it. people give up disabled babies all the time but healthy babies are in demand. not sure why, i sure as hell don't want one lol

Why wouldn't someone want a baby?

 

[medicalmaryjane]

why would someone?

besides, you're the one who acted like people r ditching babies left and right. i said no one is getting rid of babies but that i personally do not want one.

 

[cannabineer]

What if it came properly accessorized, MMJ? cn

 

[RainbowBrite86]

A lot of states have places that are safe that you can legally drop your baby off at if you don't want it. Some states have limits on how old the baby can be though, here I think it's 3 days. You can take your baby to places like the hospital, the fire station, police station, etc, and they won't ask any questions. But if you're actually looking to sell the baby? I guess I would start by asking people I knew wanted a baby and go from there!

 

[medicalmaryjane]

YEAH OOK, I guess if it's a girl and she's petite & cute, and looks like me and behaves well. well... then she will make all of my dreams come true and i can live through her and act like i am MS. Special bc i popped her out & feel like i am doing something great for the planet. then my whole life will be worthwhile. you know, babies are MIRACLES!!

she'd be especialy irresistable in a bow like the one in the pic you provided.

as a bonus, i can act like i've conqured the world because i've been through childbirth or a csection bc we all know that's the most difficult thing to endure.

it's all about ME baby.

gosh, my tude today is beyond bad... i better go smoke & get out of this funk i am in.

 

[cannabineer]

YEAH OOK, I guess if it's a girl and she's petite & cute, and looks like me and behaves well. well... then she will make all of my dreams come true and i can live through her and act like i am MS. Special bc i popped her out & feel like i am doing something great for the planet. then my whole life will be worthwhile. you know, babies are MIRACLES!!

she'd be especialy irresistable in a bow like the one in the pic you provided.

as a bonus, i can act like i've conqured the world because i've been through childbirth or a csection bc we all know that's the most difficult thing to endure.

it's all about ME baby.

gosh, my tude today is beyond bad... i better go smoke & get out of this funk i am in.

The bow wasn't the accessory I had in mind. imagine him in just an apron. cn

 

[RainbowBrite86]

I actually get where you're coming from, medicalmaryjane. I don't like the concept that a child is the only thing that makes a woman's life meaningful.

 

[Shaggy Green]

Children are so great, but they have a tendency to get at your nerves after to long...lol

 

[Finshaggy]

why would someone?

besides, you're the one who acted like people r ditching babies left and right. i said no one is getting rid of babies but that i personally do not want one.

I didn't act like people are ditching babies left and right.
I asked how people that DO ditch their babies, do it.
I was wondering if things like the movie Juno, happen everyday...

YEAH OOK, I guess if it's a girl and she's petite & cute, and looks like me and behaves well. well... then she will make all of my dreams come true and i can live through her and act like i am MS. Special bc i popped her out & feel like i am doing something great for the planet. then my whole life will be worthwhile. you know, babies are MIRACLES!!

she'd be especialy irresistable in a bow like the one in the pic you provided.

as a bonus, i can act like i've conqured the world because i've been through childbirth or a csection bc we all know that's the most difficult thing to endure.

it's all about ME baby.

gosh, my tude today is beyond bad... i better go smoke & get out of this funk i am in.

Babies are awesome though.
Not just for you, for them.

How can people not love babies.
Babies are so funny. And they don't even try. And they love to laugh with you, at them.
Babies are bad ass.

And as a bonus, you get to RAISE yours.
How is THAT not a bad ass concept all alone.

You get to tell someone what's going on, and they want to know, and you get a reason to fix the bad that's going on.
You get to protect your child. You get to add a better person to the world.
Unless you don't think you can make a good person.
I know I can though, I've had plenty of practice raising kids.
I can't wait

Children are so great, but they have a tendency to get at your nerves after to long...lol

They get on your nerves.
But then they say they love you at night, and none of it matters
They're so little

 

[medicalmaryjane]

those are all things you want for yourself.

the reality is that they will get older and probably be lonely, work at a job they dislike day after day, only looking forward to the weekends. stressed about bills, unable to do things they r passionate about ebcause they are too worried about the next bill arriving. i don't know. sometimes life looks dark.

i feel lucky that i live the way i do but i see so many miserable people everyday. i feel bad for the people struggling to get to their shit job every day & wishing they could go anohter direction but they can't. that's the real world. i've been there. wake, eat, go to work, come home, eat, sleep. repeat.


i believe it is these same miserable people who command the streets during rush hour and try to kill people with their horrific driving and curse at people and don't let them go even when they are just rushing up to a red light.

gosh how i hate 9-5ers. gotta rush home to the kiddies lol. what a life!!!!

OH AND YES, i know my views r whacked out and abnormal. ive been like this my whole life so it's nothing new...

 

[Finshaggy]

those are all things you want for yourself.

the reality is that they will get older and probably be lonely, work at a job they dislike day after day, only looking forward to the weekends. stressed about bills, unable to do things they r passionate about ebcause they are too worried about the next bill arriving. i don't know. sometimes life looks dark.

i feel lucky that i live the way i do but i see so many miserable people everyday. i feel bad for the people struggling to get to their shit job every day & wishing they could go anohter direction but they can't. that's the real world. i've been there. wake, eat, go to work, come home, eat, sleep. repeat.


i believe it is these same miserable people who command the streets during rush hour and try to kill people with their horrific driving and curse at people and don't let them go even when they are just rushing up to a red light.

gosh how i hate 9-5ers. gotta rush home to the kiddies lol. what a life!!!!

OH AND YES, i know my views r whacked out and abnormal. ive been like this my whole life so it's nothing new...

That's what you aren't getting.

Mine won't go through that.

That's what I'm doing for them
It's not for me. Read all of those again.

 

[Finshaggy]

I'm here for the better of my kids.
For the better of my family.
For the better of my state.
For the better of my people.
For the better of my god.

Not for myself.
At the very least. My kids will have everything.
They will be able to go anywhere. And have places to take refuge.
There will be so much for them.
Or someone else, if they don't want it...

 

[medicalmaryjane]

what have you done recently that didn't benefit you in some way?

 

[Finshaggy]

what have you done recently that didn't benefit you in some way?

Stay in Colorado to raise my two bastard (literal term) half brothers.

Instead of leaving to further my own future. Which will also benefit them, and their entire family.
Which is delayed, but still happening.

 

[medicalmaryjane]

yeah but that's normal family shit. i mean for people who aren't relatives. anyone would do that for their family.

 

[medicalmaryjane]

here's an example. the other day i was at the hospital and i saw an old lady who looked confused so i asked her if she was ok and she was lost. i helped her pay her parking in the machine. i helped her find her car & walked her there, made sure she was safely in her car before i left. that's an example of something simple somoene can do for someone else if they are aware of what is going on and concerned about someone other than themselves/family/friends. i am not saying i am a saint or anything but i hate when people preach like they are such great people, ""its for the good of god". BS they don't do shit for anyone.

oh and i am not religious so that god crap makes me want to hurl big time!!!!