I think I might hate my dad

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puffenuff

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Lol the "i hate my daddy" thread. The way I look at it is like this: if you live with your parents then respect them even if they don't show respect for you. If you have no option to move out, don't add fuel to the fire by fighting back. Keep your distance, separate yourself from the drama and let it roll off your shoulders. Maybe record some of the shit your dad says and play it back for him when he's in a good mood and maybe he'll recognize he's being a bit of a dick.
 
rowlman

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puffenuff said:
Lol the "i hate my daddy" thread. The way I look at it is like this: if you live with your parents then respect them even if they don't show respect for you. If you have no option to move out, don't add fuel to the fire by fighting back. Keep your distance, separate yourself from the drama and let it roll off your shoulders. Maybe record some of the shit your dad says and play it back for him when he's in a good mood and maybe he'll recognize he's being a bit of a dick.
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what if he likes being a dick?...then what?...sorry dude, but nothing you can say could ever make me have respect for a fuckin asshole who hurts his family to the point they disown him...a very cruel person derserves no fuckin respect in my world...I would NEVER do to my kids the shit he has done to me...or even talk to my grandkids the way he's talked to my kids...you know nothing....fuck him!...I'll respect him MAYBE when he's dead

...FYI...I only lived with the prick face 1 time for about a year...but yet he finds a way to wessle his way in and hurt everyone for his own gain...almost 30 years later...I let it go along time ago...but he's still there,being a dick....and when it comes to my kids,they will always come 1st...and when someone hurts them the way he did...the get no respect!!...they get burned out of the family for good.
 
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ganjames said:
i love when adults complain about their parents. you know you can just leave, right?
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Dude, it's one thing if you take an adult that has not been brought up in an abusive environment, and put them in an abusive situation. It is totally another if a person has been abused since they were so small that they absorbed their abuse as though it were true (i.e. "you are worthless", etc.)....

In other words, unless you have lived someone elses life, you only show yourself as being ignorant by judging them.

That said, there is some value to your advice. (@nusky >>>>) Getting out of the situation (moving out, limiting contact) so that you can create the space for you to heal and build your belief in yourself as a separate and valid person who does not need your dads approval is a very valid path. Its scary, sometimes, and it may not be easy, but you will find yourself a new and much stronger person for the experience.
 
medicalmaryjane

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how old r u?

i think it's time to move very far away and do your own thing. i don't care for my mother but being over 3k miles away helps.
 
ganjames

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SaneLawsMake4SaneSociety said:
Dude, it's one thing if you take an adult that has not been brought up in an abusive environment, and put them in an abusive situation. It is totally another if a person has been abused since they were so small that they absorbed their abuse as though it were true (i.e. "you are worthless", etc.)....

In other words, unless you have lived someone elses life, you only show yourself as being ignorant by judging them.

That said, there is some value to your advice. (@nusky >>>>) Getting out of the situation (moving out, limiting contact) so that you can create the space for you to heal and build your belief in yourself as a separate and valid person who does not need your dads approval is a very valid path. Its scary, sometimes, and it may not be easy, but you will find yourself a new and much stronger person for the experience.
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*smacks lips* nigga please... ya'll muthafuckas know i ain't mean it like that. dude is an adult and sick of his situation, it's not like they got this nigga locked in a cage and won't let him leave.
 
rowlman

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...why is everyone so serious?... lighten up a bit, take a deep breath...it's just a thread about asshole dads
 
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newatit2010

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You little turd, when your ass grows up you find you should have listen to your dad more. One day he will be gone and you will relies the man loved you. Might not be what you think it is now but life will teach you.
 
Jack Harer

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I'd be willing to bet that he drinks alcohol, maybe not to excess, but he drinks nonetheless. And if not now, at one point he was or is a smoker of cigarettes. If he's not Viet Nam era, then he's the stereotypical brainwashed military man who brings those values and discipline home. Been there, done that. Nothing you can do to change him. Change yourself. The longer you stay unproductive at home, the more you reinforce his views.
 
Dislexicmidget2021

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Only you can make the decision to get away from those circumstances that hinder your life progress,if you really want something do what it takes to achieve it and nothing less.
 
puffenuff

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rowlman said:
what if he likes being a dick?...then what?...sorry dude, but nothing you can say could ever make me have respect for a fuckin asshole who hurts his family to the point they disown him...a very cruel person derserves no fuckin respect in my world...I would NEVER do to my kids the shit he has done to me...or even talk to my grandkids the way he's talked to my kids...you know nothing....fuck him!...I'll respect him MAYBE when he's dead

...FYI...I only lived with the prick face 1 time for about a year...but yet he finds a way to wessle his way in and hurt everyone for his own gain...almost 30 years later...I let it go along time ago...but he's still there,being a dick....and when it comes to my kids,they will always come 1st...and when someone hurts them the way he did...the get no respect!!...they get burned out of the family for good.
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I see two dickheads in this equation. I was just giving my point of view and you get all butthurt and tell me I know nothing? You're right, I don't know shit about how dysfunctional your life is and frankly I don't give a rat's ass. Enjoy your fucked up family. Peace!
 
Nusky

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yea I'm moving out soon. I applied to low income housing as I haven't found a job yet and have been looking daily for a few months. Lots of call backs but nothing after the interview.

I'm 25 and have been out of the house in my own apartment but had to move back because of lack of funds. I'd move somewhere else but minimum wage is the highest where I am and cost of living is the lowest where I live. Other than that I can't stand where I live and would move somewhere else in a heartbeat.

Like I said he had teh right to call the cops I just don't think the cops had a right to throw me into the psych ward with no evidence. They didn't even find my QP of weed I was selling that I hid in an arcade (theres no jail time etc for a QP not in baggies, it was in a mason jar).
 
Corso312

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your parents are anti pot because they were brainwashed as kids... it is ignorant to throw things in someone elses home especially your parents man...don't act like a petulant brat when things don't go your way..handle it like a man and deal with it like an adult...get a job save some money and get your own apartment and you will be much happier..your parents too..good luck
 
HydroDawg421

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Join the military. They will house, clothe and feed you. Oh . . . And make a man out of you. All the while providing you with a paycheck and money for college. Quit whining and man-up!!!
 
Dizzle Frost

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rowlman said:
I KNOW I hate my dad...and NO, I don't live at home...in my case, he's an evil basterd.....Honor Thy Father my ass...I would'nt spit on his burning corpse, just because it might cool it down...I would'nt throw gas on it either, I'd rather him burn slowly....I would give up my left nut to watch him star in a snuff film....I wouldn't clip off a toenail to save his life....I hope he suffers a long and miserable remainder of his lonely pathedic excuse for a life.

...and if he's still hacking my shit, I hope he reads this too.
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maybe we got the same dad lol are you my 1/2 brother?
 
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