BC, you're talking to a brick wall, my friend. As a teacher, I have seen this phenomena over and over again. Young people these days have become ingrained to expect instantaneous answers to any question without having to put any effort at all into finding the answers themselves. I see it every day in my classrooms. Their book will be sitting unopened on their desk, and will ask me a question unrelated to anything we have been discussing, something like "What is a comma splice?" In the interest of trying to help them find answers to their own questions (since I am not always there), I will ask them to refer to their index and see if they can find the answer themselves first. Their reaction is almost always the same - they think I'm being difficult. They'll get all incensed and say, "But you know the answer. Just tell me!" I'll try to explain that I am trying to help them help themselves (you know, the whole teach a man to fish concept) and they always get defensive: "I was just asking, gah!"
Too many people (usually young people) are becoming less and less able to help themselves and expect someone else to swoop in and do everything for them. I see it everywhere in real life and all over these boards as well.