OMFG!! I'm supposed to be the one with the Dark Cloud over my head!! NOT YOU!!!
I have several friends but I've only told one about my grow. It's kind of a bummer because you want to be able to talk about this with someone!! My wife only pretends to listen.
That's why we are all here I guess, so's someone will listen to us.
Sometimes it's just as well to only tell those that you trust or are definitely "in the circle". Boyfriends of sister friend would take a LONG time for me to start to trust and we would have had to gotten drunk together a few times first!!