Where to find a gf/bf
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FluffyToke
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indeed, you just have to go about your daily life, and expect good things. when you hunt for a woman, she's hard to find; when you let the woman come to you, things turn out better 
MrHowardMarks
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I know how easy it would be to be a terrorist, and land a job here... I've worked at the airport since 1999, so the whole 9/11 thing was a joke, and so is TSA... Completely worthless gov organization.
Anyway, working around all these people, I've become very good with conversation an being able to maintain eye contact without instinctively looking away... Works pretty good, they know I'm looking at them.
Also, I wanted to thank everyone for responding, I had no idea it would get this much attention.
Anyway, working around all these people, I've become very good with conversation an being able to maintain eye contact without instinctively looking away... Works pretty good, they know I'm looking at them.
Also, I wanted to thank everyone for responding, I had no idea it would get this much attention.
MrHowardMarks
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Oh yeah, flight attendants (stewardesses) are whores, they love to fuck. I've done at least 10 in various places at the airport. Call it a "lay over" 
Tired of random ass, I want someone to love.
Tired of random ass, I want someone to love.
mastakoosh
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at brothels the women always act like i am something special.
gogrow
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i actually met my wife at church.... although i would never recommend that to anyone as a place to meet women.... mine was different, as we were like 14when we met.... seemed to work out fine though
i tend to agree with the logic floating around that as long as you are looking, you wont really find... its when you let your guard down and stop being on the offensive, she will come to you
i tend to agree with the logic floating around that as long as you are looking, you wont really find... its when you let your guard down and stop being on the offensive, she will come to you
Seamaiden
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Is growing/smoking really your main interest? You seem to share another interest with hyphy and some others. I know that's a male dominated type of thing (my own interests, the ones that have really held me, are also very male-dominated; fishkeeping, riding, fishing, politics, scuba), but, it's a big thing to have a shared interest.
I would NOT trust a stranger, even a stranger you may fuck, until that's the person, you know, "The Person".
Seriously, though, a few people have talked about first being happy with yourself. And it's hard to explain what that is until you've experienced it. I'll try, but with Dave and I what had happened was I had gotten out of a long relationship that ended VERY badly for me. I tried a little dating, didn't meet many men that I was even interested in, so that made it more difficult for me. Then, I went on ONE date with a guy much older than I, he was 52 and I was in my late 30s. He became and instant stalker, but was this stable, well-off man and so my mother, of all people was giving me shit about not digging him so much. After he showed up at my place of work unannounced and uninvited twice, which included him driving by my house after I'd told him I did not want my boys knowing anything about him, I said THAT'S FUCKING IT!! NO MORE GOD DAMNED MEN!
I decided that having my family was enough for me. It's enough love and it's enough heartache, thank you very much. I was going to please ME, and if I needed a man it was just to get laid.
Shortly after that Dave and I met online, but only became friends. It wasn't til a few months after that that he confessed how I interested him, but I was having none of it. Because I was finished with men, you see. Look where that got me.
It's like water, you can't grab it.
Honestly, though, if there's that certain kind of love, that person is beautiful. The most beautiful.
I would NOT trust a stranger, even a stranger you may fuck, until that's the person, you know, "The Person".
Seriously, though, a few people have talked about first being happy with yourself. And it's hard to explain what that is until you've experienced it. I'll try, but with Dave and I what had happened was I had gotten out of a long relationship that ended VERY badly for me. I tried a little dating, didn't meet many men that I was even interested in, so that made it more difficult for me. Then, I went on ONE date with a guy much older than I, he was 52 and I was in my late 30s. He became and instant stalker, but was this stable, well-off man and so my mother, of all people was giving me shit about not digging him so much. After he showed up at my place of work unannounced and uninvited twice, which included him driving by my house after I'd told him I did not want my boys knowing anything about him, I said THAT'S FUCKING IT!! NO MORE GOD DAMNED MEN!
I decided that having my family was enough for me. It's enough love and it's enough heartache, thank you very much. I was going to please ME, and if I needed a man it was just to get laid.
Shortly after that Dave and I met online, but only became friends. It wasn't til a few months after that that he confessed how I interested him, but I was having none of it. Because I was finished with men, you see. Look where that got me.
It's like water, you can't grab it.
Hey, you remember that song about never make a pretty girl your wife?most of the really hot girls dont have much in these departments.... my wife is beautiful; but not a stunning bunny... but she more than fills every one of these aspects you laid out here.... all of my married friends have married a woman who isnt quite as attractive as the girls they used to date/sleep with... maybe it means nothing, but maybe it does
Honestly, though, if there's that certain kind of love, that person is beautiful. The most beautiful.
Seamaiden
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People LOVE to give love advice.I know how easy it would be to be a terrorist, and land a job here... I've worked at the airport since 1999, so the whole 9/11 thing was a joke, and so is TSA... Completely worthless gov organization.
Anyway, working around all these people, I've become very good with conversation an being able to maintain eye contact without instinctively looking away... Works pretty good, they know I'm looking at them.
Also, I wanted to thank everyone for responding, I had no idea it would get this much attention.
FluffyToke
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thanks for the tip about flight attendants. I'm gonna join the mile high club this year no matter what
mane2008
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i feel you... You just tired of fuckin diff girl n you want something solid.Oh yeah, flight attendants (stewardesses) are whores, they love to fuck. I've done at least 10 in various places at the airport. Call it a "lay over"
Tired of random ass, I want someone to love.
You'll like it, since I think you past the "I want the most pussy" phase.
Just take every opportunity you get. Dont let no girl slip away spit ya game
MrHowardMarks
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I've never really played offense, but I feel I'm running out of time / options.
All my friends are getting married, also past crushes are tieing the knot.
I feel if I don't start acting now, I'm never going to find the right one.
I sound like a little bitch
Oh well, I had a dream about a grade school crush and found out she's engaged after a little searching on the net.
Guess I'm just freaking out a bit, being in a 5 year relationship that doesn't work out sucks, it's been a year and the dating scene has changed, I'm older, and not getting any younger.
All my friends are getting married, also past crushes are tieing the knot.
I feel if I don't start acting now, I'm never going to find the right one.
I sound like a little bitch
Oh well, I had a dream about a grade school crush and found out she's engaged after a little searching on the net. Guess I'm just freaking out a bit, being in a 5 year relationship that doesn't work out sucks, it's been a year and the dating scene has changed, I'm older, and not getting any younger.
FluffyToke
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he's right.
Seamaiden
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Oh, come on. How old are you? You know that residents of nursing homes are gettin' it on and getting married all the time, right?I've never really played offense, but I feel I'm running out of time / options.
All my friends are getting married, also past crushes are tieing the knot.
I feel if I don't start acting now, I'm never going to find the right one.
I sound like a little bitch
Guess I'm just freaking out a bit, being in a 5 year relationship that doesn't work out sucks, it's been a year and the dating scene has changed, I'm older, and not getting any younger.
323cheezy
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wish i had that problem..... i luv random ass.... sounds like you need to find yourself and not a loving relationship........ not saying that your lost or anything... but seriously ...... you should be content with random ass..... ive been in a relationship for too long..... trust me you dont wanna be here...... settle for the random ass.....Oh yeah, flight attendants (stewardesses) are whores, they love to fuck. I've done at least 10 in various places at the airport. Call it a "lay over"
Tired of random ass, I want someone to love.
FluffyToke
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all ass, married or random is good, but it shouldn't be the ass you want, it should be the woman.
MrHowardMarks
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After being in a long relationship, I got tons of ass, all the time... But no emotional attachment.
So, I'm not really over the getting tons of pussy, I just want tons of pussy from someone to love.
It's getting hard to keep up with all these posts... Thanks...
Maiden- I'm 26, and yes, cannabis is that big of a part of my life.
I'm perfectly comfortable by myself and with myself... I don't have any issues, aside of being a complete pothead. And awesome for you and Dave, I've seen him on here... Very manly man.
So, I'm not really over the getting tons of pussy, I just want tons of pussy from someone to love.
It's getting hard to keep up with all these posts... Thanks...
Maiden- I'm 26, and yes, cannabis is that big of a part of my life.
I'm perfectly comfortable by myself and with myself... I don't have any issues, aside of being a complete pothead. And awesome for you and Dave, I've seen him on here... Very manly man.
Seamaiden
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You have plenty of time. When it's right, the timing will work itself out.
gogrow
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call me old fasioned, but i really do believe that there is ONE person for everyone; unless that person dies on you, then life may make another for you, but the searching will mess you up... you dont want to grab the first girl that you get along with and marry her.... i say let it go and live your life, and eventually you will meet your wife....
DWR
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I've never really played offense, but I feel I'm running out of time / options.
All my friends are getting married, also past crushes are tieing the knot.
I feel if I don't start acting now, I'm never going to find the right one.
I sound like a little bitch
Guess I'm just freaking out a bit, being in a 5 year relationship that doesn't work out sucks, it's been a year and the dating scene has changed, I'm older, and not getting any younger.
rofl i had a dream the same dude, i rang her up... went out with her... she wasnt anything for me.. but in my dreams.. wow, it was the perfect woman ^^
you dun sound like a little bitch, just cuz your friends have found or atleast think they found it... thats great for em.. but hey, they envy you pretty much prob. u are free ^^
maybe they dun envy u atm. but in 4 years they will
Twistyman
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Funny stuff Sea..In 86 I had my 2nd hip replacement, and they'd send you to a rehab. hospital, all the time people were screwing..I had a girl that had fallen 4 stories and shattered her pelvis..I was 6 months there and we hooked up..Problem is when you get a hip done you can't bend at an angle of more than 45 degrees or the hip pops out..(which hurts..I know), so you'd hear about "sally and Joe" boinking and one would have popped a hip....... got to do what you got to do......
