Where to find a gf/bf

GNOME GROWN

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haahaaa!..u really made the thread!!!!
I feel bad dude...Theres plenty of fish in the sea man!
When u swim past the ones with pretty colors u cant be afraid to flap ur gills! :)
 

MrHowardMarks

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Yeah, too bad your girl's taken... Busy staring at her ass... Sorry...

-I'm gonna start hitting on chicks more often, eye contact just isn't cutting it.
 

hyphyjoose

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Yeah, too bad your girl's taken... Busy staring at her ass... Sorry...

-I'm gonna start hitting on chicks more often, eye contact just isn't cutting it.
wtf? eye contact? lol bro, you drive an sti, and you're having problems with women? i mean, are you lookign for somethign serious or something fun? you drive an sti brah so you obviously enjoy the whole "live fast kiss slow die young" type of thing..fuck relationships its almost non stop drama with girls our age, just go out and have fun..
 

MrHowardMarks

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Yeah, that's just it, I'm sorta tired of random pussy, all I really have to do is shoot a wink ;) and most chicks want to ride my cock... But I'm not looking for them, I want relationship material...
 

DWR

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I'd say from experience :

Got to a party, dance to some music :)


then suddenly you'll have some guys and girls dancing by your side... with the dudes you make friends.... and with the women u start to dance, if she feels aight with it she just might steal your heart :D


heheheheeee
 

hyphyjoose

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Yeah, that's just it, I'm sorta tired of random pussy, all I really have to do is shoot a wink ;) and most chicks want to ride my cock... But I'm not looking for them, I want relationship material...
one of the quintessential properties of the human condition.. you can say i want all you want, but actions speak louder than words yadadi..go out and play the field, typing this on toke n talk wont improve your situation breh:blsmoke:
 

GNOME GROWN

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Yeah, too bad your girl's taken... Busy staring at her ass... Sorry...

-I'm gonna start hitting on chicks more often, eye contact just isn't cutting it.
hahaha..its ight man dont be sorry!..
Eye contact usually starts it off though...look away then look back...if shes still looking then go introduce urself!:mrgreen:
Ihope u find a lady to share ur ladies with! my girl loves my plants...i wanna teach her but she worries me...lol she asked id grow her a plant the other day...i told her to order seeds and grow her on..she was stoked but did nothing about it...
"i just wanted her to order seeds!" :hump::mrgreen:
 

ALX420

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just be yourself.
go to the places you enjoy.
do the things you love.

the right person will be doing the same thing.
and they are looking for you just as hard as they you are looking for them.
but if you arent yourself than you will find someone that isnt perfect for you.
 

Seamaiden

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Alright, so I've been single for a year now, been on a bunch of dates, but haven't found any good matches.

Decided to open a conversation on where to meet someone special, someone you'd consider marriage with.

I don't drink and hate bars so that's out of the question. I love to go to parks daily, but haven't met anyone there... I was thinking a concert, but that's really no a good place to start a conversation.

Any ideas?

Where did you meet your partner?

Considering that I grow and love cannabis, it's a bit difficult to meet someone with similar interests that's trustworthy.

Everyone I've had a crush on, or should've acted on is getting married, and I'm feeling a bit left behind. :?
Find a website that focuses on an interest. Meet people and be happy. Watch out!

My husband, VTXDave, and I met on a reefkeeping website back in '03. The long distance thing was very difficult, almost two full years being separated by hundreds of miles.
i never find anything when im lookin it always comes when you least expect it
And DING DING DING! That's where I was when we met. 8)
You just gotta go to places that are chill.

my gf has a book club(that get's hosted at my crib every other week ) and they are full of chill girls who made something of themselves.

I feel you can't bring no slut home
Wow, really? I have a friend (she's a librarian) who belongs to a book club, but I thought it must be so corny or something. Now, my friend, the librarian, she smokes (not to her head, but that's ok, I'll make up for her lost time), and your girl, SHE smokes AND rolls. So... That must be a pretty cool book club. :D
drum circle.
always great peeps at a drum circle.
:shock:
I've only known one other person who ever spoke of a drum circle, and he's Chiricahua Apache. Unfortunately, I heard about all the girls he met at drum circles, and they were... they were fucking psycho.
Yeah, that's just it, I'm sorta tired of random pussy, all I really have to do is shoot a wink ;) and most chicks want to ride my cock... But I'm not looking for them, I want relationship material...
Then make her appearance the LAST consideration, instead of the first. Did you notice that your list of what you're looking for has absolutely nothing to do with intelligence, kindness, compassion, personality, sense of humor, wit, or the ability to cook? That's the first thing I noticed.
 

GNOME GROWN

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just be yourself.
go to the places you enjoy.
do the things you love.

the right person will be doing the same thing.
and they are looking for you just as hard as they you are looking for them.
but if you arent yourself than you will find someone that isnt perfect for you.
verry verry true!...always be urself!
 

ALX420

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"I've only known one other person who ever spoke of a drum circle, and he's Chiricahua Apache. Unfortunately, I heard about all the girls he met at drum circles, and they were... they were fucking psycho."


haha. that is a serious drum circle.
i am talking about a stoner drum circle on the beach.

plus, i like a lil psycho.
 

Seamaiden

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"I've only known one other person who ever spoke of a drum circle, and he's Chiricahua Apache. Unfortunately, I heard about all the girls he met at drum circles, and they were... they were fucking psycho."


haha. that is a serious drum circle.
i am talking about a stoner drum circle on the beach.

plus, i like a lil psycho.
Even the Lorena Bobbit cut-your-dick-off kind of psycho? Wow, dude, that is balls OUT! :hump:
 

gogrow

confused
Then make her appearance the LAST consideration, instead of the first. Did you notice that your list of what you're looking for has absolutely nothing to do with intelligence, kindness, compassion, personality, sense of humor, wit, or the ability to cook? That's the first thing I noticed.

most of the really hot girls dont have much in these departments.... my wife is beautiful; but not a stunning bunny... but she more than fills every one of these aspects you laid out here.... all of my married friends have married a woman who isnt quite as attractive as the girls they used to date/sleep with... maybe it means nothing, but maybe it does;-)
 

Twistyman

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Even the Lorena Bobbit cut-your-dick-off kind of psycho? Wow, dude, that is balls OUT! :hump:
Shit I hear that... don't want to wake up with your own balls in your mouth.........
Being a drummer I always got approached while setting kit up in clubs... playing guitar at beach/park/corn roast...thats another good place for the life sort is community functions.....
 

MrHowardMarks

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Farmer's Markets is a good one, just out of season :? I actually met my last long term gf at a farmers market.

As far as my explaination of my ideal match, of course I want personality, compassion... Etc. I don't give a shit if she can cook and clean, I can definately take care of that department.

Just want to be highly attracted to each other too... I hear a bunch of married couples who say they rarely have sex anymore and don't want to be that way.


Okay, I think I need to reword what I'm looking for...

Where can I meet a stoner chick, I have no trouble picking up girls if I want, but I'm looking for someone to share the rest of my life with, and the rest of my life involves cultivating and smoking ganja... So where do all the girls on RIU hang out when they're offline?

I think a lot of it has to do with what I do, growing/smoking... I'm not about to open up to someone about my personal buisness, without being sure they won't dick me over... Or whatever, remember, the first rule of fight club, you don't tell anyone about fight club... The second rule of fight club, you don't tell anyone about fight club. So... Where do I find the perfect stoner chick, who's not a dumbass, I spent an hour at Borders with a High Times in one hand, coffee in the other scoping out chicks and nothing, not a single attractive girl to talk to.

Is it uncommon to have both beauty and brains, because all the pretty girls seem to give up on being smart, and skate through life just being a pretty face.

God dammit!

I work where there are probably 10,000 people everyday traveling through... I constantly see chicks checking me out, but can't do anything about it, they aren't from around here, just traveling through... I work at an international airport... Yeah, I drive big vehicles around airplanes... I could blow up a plane if I so wished... Terrorism doesn't exist. </rant>
 
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