Lol! I raised him, bathed him, changed him. Plus, he stayed at my place every weekend, and we went to the Y to swim, lift weights, play racquetball, etc.. You gotta shower after or smell like ass. Guys' showers are not like the woman's, with your cute little separate stalls. Guys' showers are one big room with a bunch of nozzles, like herding cattle in to hose them down. Not very dignified, but this is the way.
He just got out of the shower in that pic, so his hair was wet, thus dark. It's the same color as the baby pic...