My "landlords" are drug testing me...

curious2garden

curious2garden

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Chris Edward said:
@Gary Goodson
Wow, what's with the hate?

I never claimed to be anybody.
I posted a comment, people took it the wrong way (I never said he should sue), I defended myself, the whole situation got blown out of proportion.
I was wrong.
I tried to be diplomatic about it.

The whole situation is stupid and not worth bitching about.

Or we can be petty and fight with each other.
Cause that always ends nicely!
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No, you counseled him to be deceitful and run a mind game on his parents. That's very adult. </sarcasm>
 
Roger A. Shrubber

Roger A. Shrubber

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jerryb73 said:
I’m going through this right now. My adult son, 27. Just got out of jail with nowhere to go so I tried to help, AGAIN. I have very simple rules, that he knew upfront and agreed to. Let him use a vehicle that we are not using so he could find work and commute. 1 condition, to work and back, period. Don’t like it? Walk. Don’t come straight home, you’re out. Don’t like what I’m saying, leave. I give zero shits about how old he is, if you cannot take care of yourself then your age has nothing to do with being an adult. He left for work Thursday morning and has never called or returned. Happy birthday dad...


Let me add. He has struggled with opioid addiction and had done 2 ,11 month stents already.
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time for a third stretch...he's at a point where he doesn't care about anyone but himself, and he'll either keep your vehicle till your forcefully reposes it, or he'll sell it for drugs. you went out of your way, gave him more than anyone else on the planet would have, and he still shit on you. not trying to be an asshole, but you're failing him, by not putting him on the spot. he's obviously never learned some of the more important lessons in life. not saying you didn't try to teach him, took me quite a while to learn myself, which is why i know you aren't helping him, i know what it took for me to grow up. he has to bounce off of the bottom, and then lay there long enough to realize no one is going to help him up, he either has to get up on his own, or lay there and be buried in shit, and it's entirely up to him which he chooses....hope for your sake that he eventually decides to get up and join the rest of the race
 
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