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wildfire97936

wildfire97936

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Bbcchance said:
I'm landing there December 9th to hit the BBQ for the weekend, should I stay in rockville instead?
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Most my experiance is further south closer to the Bay. Stayed in Fairfield for a week, it was nice. But, between here and real life, I don't really hear good things about Sacramento. I'd definitely do what ever is easier/safer for your own personal limits. Personally I've stayed in a lot of shitty places so it doesn't bother me, just avoid them when I can.
 
Bbcchance

Bbcchance

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wildfire97936 said:
Most my experiance is further south closer to the Bay. Stayed in Fairfield for a week, it was nice. But, between here and real life, I don't really hear good things about Sacramento. I'd definitely do what ever is easier/safer for your own personal limits. Personally I've stayed in a lot of shitty places so it doesn't bother me, just avoid them when I can.
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I feel ya, I live in a city twice the size of Sacramento in one of the rougher neiborhoods there so I should be fine, I know the rules, I ain't got shit and I ain't see shit
 
Bbcchance

Bbcchance

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In their defense it was a REALLY nice phone, and they didn't have one and wanted one, sad, but it's just how they were raised, they only get in trouble when they bring the heat around. I raise mine different though, they go to private school cause I work hard, they know I work hard for what we have because they have to work as well, things in my home are earned, privileges as well as material possessions. My children are told no.
On the other side of that I don't lie to them or break promises, if I say I'll be there, I am, if they ask a question, I give them a straight answer, I always hated to be told because I said so, so now I refuse to say it
 
bassman999

bassman999

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Bbcchance said:
In their defense it was a REALLY nice phone, and they didn't have one and wanted one, sad, but it's just how they were raised, they only get in trouble when they bring the heat around. I raise mine different though, they go to private school cause I work hard, they know I work hard for what we have because they have to work as well, things in my home are earned, privileges as well as material possessions. My children are told no.
On the other side of that I don't lie to them or break promises, if I say I'll be there, I am, if they ask a question, I give them a straight answer, I always hated to be told because I said so, so now I refuse to say it
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Its hard to be a parent that does that, but you are doing the right thing.
My wife doesnt back me up and we argue as a result.
My oldest daughter gets it and the younger one doesnt.
I mean she doesnt steal etc...but doesnt work hard to get what she needs/wants.

Oldest daughter is a fulltime student in college and a restaurant manager at 20 yrs old, 16 yr old flunking outta school.
 
Bbcchance

Bbcchance

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bassman999 said:
Its hard to be a parent that does that, but you are doing the right thing.
My wife doesnt back me up and we argue as a result.
My oldest daughter gets it and the younger one doesnt.
I mean she doesnt steal etc...but doesnt work hard to get what she needs/wants.

Oldest daughter is a fulltime student in college and a restaurant manager at 20 yrs old, 16 yr old flunking outta school.
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The hardest part is sticking to the No's, we have all done without at some level as a child and as adults we still feel their pain from not going to the ice capades or getting a new laptop or pizza for dinner or whatever it may be and we hate to make our children feel pain, but you just have to keep reminding yourself that being the kind of person who means what they say is a hard trait to pass on, but imho one of the most important
 
ruby fruit

ruby fruit

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Vnsmkr said:
I didn't say they were right rubes but the guy had to be a fucking genius playing fucking pokemon in the fucking hood after dark....hell even in the fucking daylight
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To bad if it was someones daughter whos disabled and got lost in the area...

Point is those fucks got no right black or white rich or poor to do that to someone
It really riles me that theres any defense towards these shitbags that grow up under there fathers brothers uncles etc that preach the word using guns etc
I may be a naive australian but i know the biggest negative for me about america is shit like this
 
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