Interesting. My 12 year old son used to have a friend, (they aren't allowed to speak anymore), who came over and spent the night. I go through my kids' phones at random, it's one of the stipulations of them having phones. I found, in my son's phone, a conversation between his friend and his friends girlfriend, where he threatened and scared her into sending him nude pictures and videos. My son was in SOOO much trouble because I expect more of him. This girl was his friend too, and he knew what was happening, and I expect my son to intervene in a situation like this regardless of what his relationship with the female is anyway. That child has since been expelled for punching a girl in the face and he "cannot *wait* to rape a real woman", his own words, swear to God. He is 12 years old. Thoughts?