Dealing with Kids that aren't yours.

Downtowntillman

Downtowntillman

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bluntmassa1 said:
Well when you write something that long us lazy stoners only read about halfway in at least me anyway. You wrote a damn book! Lol
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I know and to my wonderful friend who stated the fact about letting the story breath. I was voice typing. when I finished and looked at it I said holy Shit no stoner can ever even get to the middle of that
 
Downtowntillman

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ricky1lung said:
Don't have relationships with married women. Especially if kids are involved.

It's up to her to sort out her other relationship, imo it's up to the other guy to be a decent enough person to realize that getting into a relationship like that is the wrong thing to do, for so many reasons the list is almost endless.

Takes someone really special to run around on their families and an equally special individual to run around with married people.

Why would anyone want someone who is willing to toss away their family for a stranger or someone they've just met?
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Didn't toss her kids out. Shook them up yes off course. She stayed in her marriage for her kids. I agree, what was done is frowned on. I even look at it like that. She's a great mother, a great wife to me. A hard ass working mf and a bitch you really don't wanna piss off. What happen, happen. She got married when she was in high school. From a small town. Like really small. I really didn't expect a response on that to be positive. It felt good to rant. Gave you guys something to have fun with. Express your disapproval, and talk shit to. Win win for all. 1661727_918053221616294_7583471596150847337_n.jpg
 
ricky1lung

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Funny picture guy.
Btw, if being above a 12-15/hr pay grade since I left high school 20 years ago is doing nothing with my life I guess you've got me beat. I should be busy wasting my life with condiments and vandalizing property.

Silly me for reading your threads, I should've been busy flipping burgers.
I bbq at home, for entertaining, not to make a living.

 
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Downtowntillman

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ricky1lung said:
Funny picture guy.
Btw, if being above a 12-15/hr pay grade since I left high school 20 years ago is doing nothing with my life I guess you've got me beat. I should be busy wasting my life with condiments and vandalizing property.

Silly me for reading your threads, I should've been busy flipping burgers.
I bbq at home, for entertaining, not to make a living.

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I guess you would prefer that I join the unemployment line so everybody else can pay for my living. I don't cook there anymore. The maintenance and upkeep job is my second job. I also have a job I do for free. And another one that is my main source of income. Why so many jobs? that question already has an answer before you finish it. I would prefer to be in your shoes cause by judging me tells me you must be doing better than me. good for you. Here's a round of applause. but usually people who down others, are attempting to take their mind off of how shitty their own life is. you could and might have a better job than me but the way you approach this or any other situation tells me somewhere deep inside you are unhappy. I'm happy I'm content with my life. just really can't see myself downing someone for their job. maybe not having a job. you know but not them actually making an effort. Lol so sometimes I'm the dumbass like right now wasting my time on you. take care onelung
 
Red1966

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fandango said:
So you earn 12 bucks an hour take home?
And you don't grow more than 1/2oz plants?
I can see why 10 bucks is hurting your wallet here.
But what bugs me...is you took to a married women here?
At least when my ex-wife left me she did not ever cheat on me...she married my sons best friend(20 year age difference)
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You don't know she didn't cheat on you. It's not like she's going to say, "Honey, I screwed the mailman today".
 
sunni

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ill give you an honest answer.

stop smoking pot with your step kids.

first and foremost you chose to be with someone who had children, while they are not your children you have now taken on responsibilities of being a semi-parent.
youre not their friends, their buddy youre a goddamn role model and authority figure , but youre not acting like one, so youre not getting any respect
they dont give a shit about you, what youre issue with them is or anything because youre acting like a 16 year old right on with them.
 
a mongo frog

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sunni said:
ill give you an honest answer.

stop smoking pot with your step kids.

first and foremost you chose to be with someone who had children, while they are not your children you have now taken on responsibilities of being a semi-parent.
youre not their friends, their buddy youre a goddamn role model and authority figure , but youre not acting like one, so youre not getting any respect
they dont give a shit about you, what youre issue with them is or anything because youre acting like a 16 year old right on with them.
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Your right about the no smoking pot with the step kids, but your way off with rest of your comments. Being the kids friends is what I did 10 years ago and gaining some trust is also very important. Its a new situation for everybody involved, and unless your smack dab In the situation you really don't know how to act at first. Being an authority figure and a role model with your chest bumped out is not the right way. Playing Daddy is a car wreck waiting to happen. Its all about respect for people, and the simple saying treat people how you want to be treated is how you have to play those cards when their dealt to you.
 
sunni

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a mongo frog said:
Your right about the no smoking pot with the step kids, but your way off with rest of your comments. Being the kids friends is what I did 10 years ago and gaining some trust is also very important. Its a new situation for everybody involved, and unless your smack dab In the situation you really don't know how to act at first. Being an authority figure and a role model with your chest bumped out is not the right way. Playing Daddy is a car wreck waiting to happen. Its all about respect for people, and the simple saying treat people how you want to be treated is how you have to play those cards when their dealt to you.
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im not saying go in an act high and mighty, im saying he isnt their friend,
if that worked for you im glad
but anytime any step parent came around me acting like "my friend" i disrespected them..they arent my fucking friend...if i wanted a new goddamn friend i sure as fuck wouldnt pick them either.

theres a different between mutual respect , and being friends.

there are boundaries...proper adult to teenager dont try and cross that by being their "friend" we all know you arent actually
 
ricky1lung

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Downtowntillman said:
I guess you would prefer that I join the unemployment line so everybody else can pay for my living. I don't cook there anymore. The maintenance and upkeep job is my second job. I also have a job I do for free. And another one that is my main source of income. Why so many jobs? that question already has an answer before you finish it. I would prefer to be in your shoes cause by judging me tells me you must be doing better than me. good for you. Here's a round of applause. but usually people who down others, are attempting to take their mind off of how shitty their own life is. you could and might have a better job than me but the way you approach this or any other situation tells me somewhere deep inside you are unhappy. I'm happy I'm content with my life. just really can't see myself downing someone for their job. maybe not having a job. you know but not them actually making an effort. Lol so sometimes I'm the dumbass like right now wasting my time on you. take care onelung
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It's all about the choices you make.
Sorry man, but after reading your threads and seeing your antics I believe
You could put yourself in better situations and be far happier yourself.

If you want to toss out back handed memes because you think you're clever, expect them back in kind.

I'm downing the actions of an individual who clearly acts in ways that are less than respectable imo. I don't care where you work, but someone flipping burgers shouldn't be telling other people they've never done anything in their lives.

Buy a house completely outright for your family on your 30th birthday then comeback and talk about what it is to make it.

I can't respect someone who tears families apart and thinks it's funny to vandalize property and then complain over ten bucks.
 
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