Dealing with Kids that aren't yours.

Downtowntillman

Well-Known Member
Well where to start? Me and my wife have been together for 5 yrs. She is 8 years older than me and was previously married for about 22yrs so when we met she had 2 kids, 16 and 17 year old boys. When she left of course it was rough on them the youngest was more accepting the oldest wanted to drain my blood and pour it on her, the husband didn't take it too well either.

She was my manager at waffle house when I started working there. Cheesy but it was love at first sight. We started texting, that when on for about a month or two one night he found her phone he looked at our messages but the only thing he had a problem with was the saying I love you. he comes up there confronts me tells me not to talk to her no more blah blah dumbass shook my hand but anyway she left boys didn't like it a lot of drama with the family. time as usual heals all wounds. he's moved on has a girlfriend with kids.

they've always been smokers the youngest when he was 16 he got kicked out of school so he had nothing to do he would come hang out with me a lot when I wasn't working we actually got really close now not even the same not even close to the same. when he got kicked out of school he will come to her and he would want a pack of cigarettes $7 gas and a blunt at least they get pissed off if she didn't have it. this was in the beginning so I stayed out of it didn't say nothing to her about it this was every day until the last year it finally clicked in his head that if you wanted more things then he had to get a job guess he got tired of just sitting around and getting by. but now he has a job makes about $400 a week he'll stop by here get his dope man to come over and bring a bag and when it gets it he just takes off.

he acts like all the stuff before never happened if she asked him to borrow $10 till tomorrow he gives her the third degree.why you broke?where is your money? his girlfriend is a little snobby bitch only smoked weed once, doesn't smoke cigarettes doesn't drink. girl got money in the bank but if you ask her for anything she ain't giving you shit. I guess it rubbed off on him

but to sum this up I'm going to go to the other son. the one that wanted to drain my blood, you got a pretty good job he makes good money does heating and air. blows money like crazy. Not gonna get on his girlfriend that's a whole nother thread. well he calls and he ain't got no money so he ain't got no smoke. now is time for mommy to step in and help / enable his ass. I called my cousin asked him to go over there front him a blunt and I'd give him the money in the morning.well he gets over there and my cousin is very very nice to her family always has been.he asked him what do you need well he switches it up and says give me a dime. next day I find out okay that's fine. he said he'd pay me on Wednesday. Wednesday came nothing. I got on her told her she needs to get in touch with him. she only tried once. text him to remind him he just sends back don't know. well he usually gets paid on Thursday so I waited till yesterday. its like 9 o'clock no word. I'll tell her you need to text him I'm starting to get pissed. and honestly I just need to vent about it to get it out but of course she don't want to hear anything about it. but to me that night you didn't have anything and I saved you, i text him acting like her, tell him I need my $10 no response i text again. a little bit more stern hey cops back with.. I'm just getting in town. I knew that he had already got his money and then come home because his girlfriend started posting on Facebook which meant he got paid and turned her phone back on. well, I text again and tell him you know next time I'm going to remember this. again I'm acting like her. He just responds back with whatever. I told her I promise you I won't smoke with him again and I will never ever look out for him again.way I feel about it he ain't nothing to me now. I'm sure he'll bring the money today but it's the principle. but felt good to get that out without listening to somebody complain about not wanting to hear it. thanks for listening, if you made it this far.
 

april

Pickle Queen
So u broke up a marriage. .are unemployed...and complaining that ur step kid owes u 10 $ for weed. ..

Really think about this situation. ..like really.

*****Correction..*****...while unemployed u smoked weed with ur step child...

Can I ask the age gap between u and the kids??
 
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Downtowntillman

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Unemployed? Ha... honey I work 3 jobs.
broke up a marriage you can't take something that can't be stolen, if you really want to know a few details they hadn't slept in the same room and over 15 years he wanted to bring other peoples like coworkers home to have sex with her while he watched. put guns to her head, and later discovered afterwards got a message from someone that she knew that worked at the store above where they lived that he had been cheating on her with her for over a year
 

Downtowntillman

Well-Known Member
So u broke up a marriage. .are unemployed...and complaining that ur step kid owes u 10 $ for weed. ..

Really think about this situation. ..like really.
Ya really don't understand, nor will you, the situation. I do appreciate your pointless opinion.
 

ricky1lung

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Don't have relationships with married women. Especially if kids are involved.

It's up to her to sort out her other relationship, imo it's up to the other guy to be a decent enough person to realize that getting into a relationship like that is the wrong thing to do, for so many reasons the list is almost endless.

Takes someone really special to run around on their families and an equally special individual to run around with married people.

Why would anyone want someone who is willing to toss away their family for a stranger or someone they've just met?
 

bluntmassa1

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Well I'd say kick some ass but my mom's ex husband tried that and didn't work out so well. Lol, Tell the kid to grow weed come on hear of course say he's 18 then he will have so much weed you'll get it back my mom hasn't paid for weed in like 6 years or so and my friends get weed mad cheap and I have no money problems nor do I work for anyone but I do more than just grow weed that was just a necessity cause most my money went to weed.
 
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