OK Girls (and guys) what can you tell me about this situation.

[sunni]

Ok dudes. Yeah, my current gf is a bit more than meh I suppose, theres just some fundamental issues that make me think she isn't gonna be the one. But its decent. And cummon guys, if you had some babe giving you their number, you would be in the same mindset as me .. i would bet on it..

well generally the people who are responding to you are quite older than you, we've been in these situations or seen them happen, its highly recommended you take our old asses advice we do know whats best.

if you wanna fuck this girl, break up with your girlfriend first. dont make her out to be a fool because of your selfish needs.

 

[puffdatchronic]

False. YOu will know that you cheated on your g/f and the mother of your child…..if your child is a daughter, would YOU want her treated that way? Like I said earlier, be a man and do it the right way.


*** I know, easier said than done, but is an orgasm worth knocking down your self respect a peg or two? Especially just an orgasm that's just to prove you could "get" a 10? come on Puff, stay strong.

I'll try. But a lot of men are weak.. it'll be tough. Maybe, if things don't work out my my current gf then I'll pursue.. deal?

 

[st0wandgrow]

Ok dudes. Yeah, my current gf is a bit more than meh I suppose, theres just some fundamental issues that make me think she isn't gonna be the one. But its decent. And cummon guys, if you had some babe giving you their number, you would be in the same mindset as me .. i would bet on it..

For sure. Nobody should give you shit over being attracted to another person. You're only human. Resisting the temptation is what's on the table for discussion here.

How many people do you know that have cheated where the situation worked out great? Now, how many people do you know that cheated and ended up having to deal with all sorts of BS in the aftermath?

The odds are not in your favor.

 

[sunni]

For sure. Nobody should give you shit over being attracted to another person. You're only human. Resisting the temptation is what's on the table for discussion here.

How many people do you know that have cheated where the situation worked out great? Now, how many people do you know that cheated and ended up having to deal with all sorts of BS in the aftermath?

The odds are not in your favor.

may the odds be ever in your favour

 

[racerboy71]

plus you two work at the same place.. the volunteer part kind of throws me off a bit, but it's never good to shit where you eat, or where you get your money to eat, either way.. shit goes bad, you could both be out on your asses... most companies don't take lightly to fraternization between employees..
yeah me, i just used fraternization in a sentence, and correctly to boot, lol, what a day..

 

[sunni]

plus you two work at the same place.. the volunteer part kind of throws me off a bit, but it's never good to shit where you eat, or where you get your money to eat, either way.. shit goes bad, you could both be out on your asses... my companies don't take lightly to fraternization between employees..
yeah me, i just used fraternization in a sentence, and correctly to boot, lol, what a day..

TRUST ME DONT FUCK A CO WORKER.
been there done that

hello awkward first couple of weeks LOL

 

[cat of curiosity]

funny, me and cat typed the same shit at the same time..

great minds racer, great minds

 

[st0wandgrow]

TRUST ME DONT FUCK A CO WORKER.
been there done that

hello awkward first couple of weeks LOL

Not a RIU co-worker, right?

This is exactly how rumours get started.

 

[racerboy71]

TRUST ME DONT FUCK A CO WORKER.
been there done that

hello awkward first couple of weeks LOL

same for me.. it was a shit job, but of course things between us went bad, well, basically, she was a slut, lol, and it was just bad after we broke up..

 

[sunni]

Not a RIU co-worker, right?

This is exactly how rumours get started.

haha me and racer ya know we got some history ...we dont ever speak of its shit gets really odd with us in staff discussion LOL jk of course

same for me.. it was a shit job, but of course things between us went bad, well, basically, she was a slut, lol, and it was just bad after we broke up..

we good now, we just friends...act like it didnt happen , she winks at me sometimeslol shes a little vixen its cute, shes a good friend and so im thankful she is my friend ^_^

 

[puffdatchronic]

shes not a co worker.. its a 4 hour a week shift for a helpline/charity.

and i get what your saying sunni..but there is an element of excitment to it.. wanting what you can't get.. youve had that guilty pleasure and can now renounce it.. but could have done that before you *did it*

i'll try and resist anyway

 

[racerboy71]

haha me and racer ya know we got some history ...we dont ever speak of its shit gets really odd with us in staff discussion LOL jk of course

we good now, we just friends...act like it didnt happen , she winks at me sometimeslol shes a little vixen its cute, shes a good friend and so im thankful she is my friend ^_^

not me and this chick, i haven't seen her in years, but yeah, i don't think i'd pee on her if she were on fire, let me put it that way..

 

[st0wandgrow]

haha me and racer ya know we got some history ...we dont ever speak of its shit gets really odd with us in staff discussion LOL jk of course

we good now, we just friends...act like it didnt happen , she winks at me sometimeslol shes a little vixen its cute, shes a good friend and so im thankful she is my friend ^_^

Rumour has it his ball cheese smells like ECSD.

True?

 

[sunni]

not me and this chick, i haven't seen her in years, but yeah, i don't think i'd pee on her if she were on fire, let me put it that way..

hahaha oh racer

 

[daedalux]

be a man. juggle both until it blows up in your face.

 

[racerboy71]

[QUOTE="st0wandgrow, post: 10702083, member: 405310rumour has it his ball cheese smells like ECSD.

True? [/QUOTE]

it's 4sd stow, not ecsd..

 

[racerboy71]

be a man. juggle both until it blows up in your face.

lol, from the sounds of it, most of us here have done that in the past, and have hopefully learned from our mistakes..
someone always gets hurt, and it never goes the way you think it will, at least that's they way it went down for me.

 

[racerboy71]

and just stop and think how you'd feel if your girl was stepping out on you and banging some other dude on the side.. doesn't feel too good right?

 

[reasonevangelist]

do you guys not think that what a person doesn't know cannot hurt them.. a little secret fun would be awesome with this girl as i would be batting way above my average.

But You'll know. And it will hurt you, whether you realize it or not. You'll telegraph it, one way or another, without realizing, and things will go "boom."

 

[puffdatchronic]

and just stop and think how you'd feel if your girl was stepping out on you and banging some other dude on the side.. doesn't feel too good right?

if she did it it would be over.. yeah, it wouldnt feel good. maybe she has and I havent found out lol..