All fertilizers have three numbers on the label which indicate the fertilizer analysis, or "percentage by weight" of nitrogen, phosphorus and potassium, in that order. During the veg stage it is good to have an all around 20 20 20, so 20% nitrogen, 20% phosphorus, and 20% potassium. During flowering stage there will be enough nitro left over to suffice during this stage so you switch over to 0% nitro 15%phos and 40% potassium. There have been extensive studies on this and the conclusion is with this ratio you should expect to see higher yields and an increase in growth rate. As for the ph meter... Ebay it up my friend. I purchased two kinds on there for under $8 with free shipping straight from tokyo, one that goes in soil and the other that reads liquid. I would take this round of growing as a lesson and apply it for the next satisfaction. Do not be to worried if there are leaves curling (some, not alot, is normal for an aged plant) As far as the other leaves yellowing, you definitely should be able to save her from this point in her life. Good luck my friend and happy yields!