BreatheSmoke
New Member
Ok ... I'll never change my stance on alcoholism. It's not like the authorities are useless.. We're lucky to have them for things like this. Everyone takes that sht for granted.
wrecked my damn car
- Thread starter gogrow
- Start date
Sunnysideup
Well-Known Member
Yeah Vette I know they can...I know from reading Gogrows posts that the last thing he needs right now is a shit load of bills to help with a lesson learned. Sometimes the actual event is enough to make you learn....All in the individual.
Sunnysideup
Well-Known Member
Like I said, I will give you time to grow up....
BreatheSmoke
New Member
lol ... I know I have much to learn in life.. I'll give ya that.. But I refuse to agree with you on this one.
Sunnysideup
Well-Known Member
Fair enough Breathe...
Sunnysideup
Well-Known Member
I am holding you to it....I just had to argue with the man that I am in love with(Vette) to get my point across....I could use the rep..lol j/k
i tried to rep you but i have to spread a little. i don't see it happening in this thread though. lol
korvette1977
Well-Known Member
BreatheSmoke
New Member
Yeah ... I'm sorry if I came across with too much info... For the record though.. I'm not some angry little child that hates her daddy because he drank. My dad was always good to me. . . I never hated him for anything he did because I understood in a way...and forgive me I'm not in the best of moods either because I only got about 2 hours of sleep last night and I haven't smoked yet. That's what I'm gonna go do now.. Pick up some herb. . . and Oh man do I need it. lmao...
Johnnyorganic
Well-Known Member
Blackout. Car totaled. Injured.
All red flags when drinking is the factor.
Gogrow, I'm sending you some rep because you need support right now and that is the best I can do. Last night was a cry for help. Getting behind the wheel in such a state is suicidal.
I've been there brother. I quit drinking because I could not control it. I stuggle with the urge to drink whenever things go bad for me. Trust me, alcohol will only make a bad situation worse.
You got lucky this time in that you only hurt yourself and did not wake up behind bars. Consider this your get out of jail free card.
A DUI on your record never goes away. Every background check will reveal it and you will have to explain it away and try to convince whoever authorized the check that it was a long time ago and will never happen again. When it comes to driving while intoxicated, there is no redemption. No forgiveness, even if no one gets hurt by your offense. It follows you the remainder of your days.
Please stop drinking. Do what you have to do. Go to a meeting. Get a therapist. Enter rehab. Whatever you decide to do to go about quitting; decide to quit.
I'm not going to lie to you and say it will be easy. It is not. But you are running out options. Make the right choice now while you still have one to make.
All red flags when drinking is the factor.
Gogrow, I'm sending you some rep because you need support right now and that is the best I can do. Last night was a cry for help. Getting behind the wheel in such a state is suicidal.
I've been there brother. I quit drinking because I could not control it. I stuggle with the urge to drink whenever things go bad for me. Trust me, alcohol will only make a bad situation worse.
You got lucky this time in that you only hurt yourself and did not wake up behind bars. Consider this your get out of jail free card.
A DUI on your record never goes away. Every background check will reveal it and you will have to explain it away and try to convince whoever authorized the check that it was a long time ago and will never happen again. When it comes to driving while intoxicated, there is no redemption. No forgiveness, even if no one gets hurt by your offense. It follows you the remainder of your days.
Please stop drinking. Do what you have to do. Go to a meeting. Get a therapist. Enter rehab. Whatever you decide to do to go about quitting; decide to quit.
I'm not going to lie to you and say it will be easy. It is not. But you are running out options. Make the right choice now while you still have one to make.
i never said drinking and driving was cool. all i said was a person does NOT need to be arrested to change. it's pretty silly to even think that. i am an example of someone who stopped drinking without being arrested. why can't gogrow do it? i did. i was on meth as well, but that's a whole other story. lol give the guy a break. when he comes back next week and he's done it again, then we can kick him. right in the head. 
BreatheSmoke
New Member
I guess I just see it from a different angle .. I was seeing it as, it's not worth taking the chance of him doing it again... The sooner he learns his lesson, the more he won't have to worry about getting screwed over in some other way associated with drinking.. and if the authorities get involved, he would definitely learn.. Maybe I was being a little dramatic. lol... I tend to do that. Somehow I don't think that he'd share it with us if something happens again. ha
B
Benassi
Guest
You drove drunk, asshole. Luckily you didn't fuck someone else's life up.
You deserved the totaled car and the broken foot.
Who the fuck expects sympathy for wrecking your shit while driving drunk?
DWR
Well-Known Member
well, i got drunk at our local bar last night.... blacked out on the way home, put the car in the woods.... car is totalled... and i think i broke my foot... waiting on my grandpa to bring me to the hospital. fuck
Damn...... Its easy to say..... Dont drink n drive
Damn u realy black'd out... You are a lucky man to be alive.....
visit my thread to say thank you to that person u dont know of
might be someone special watchin over you my friendYou drove drunk, asshole. Luckily you didn't fuck someone else's life up.
You deserved the totaled car and the broken foot.
Who the fuck expects sympathy for wrecking your shit while driving drunk?
was he looking for sympathy? just wondering.
gogrow
confused
i have never asked for your sympathy.... i made the thread because i wanted to tell someone about it.... believe it or not, i do have some friends here a RIU.... do you tell your buddies your problems?? probably soYou drove drunk, asshole. Luckily you didn't fuck someone else's life up.
You deserved the totaled car and the broken foot.
Who the fuck expects sympathy for wrecking your shit while driving drunk?
was he looking for sympathy? just wondering.
Johnnyorganic
Well-Known Member
I'm not surprised at the rancor I see in this thread. This is a serious issue.
Our society is very ambiguous when it comes to alcohol. If society were serious about eliminating drunk driving, parking lots at bars would be prohibited. Every patron who drives to a bar is rolling the dice and everybody knows this, yet bars have parking lots.
I would be curious to know from those of you hurling stones: do you drink? If you drink, there always exists a possiblity you will drive impaired or have done so in the past. It only takes one time.
I applaud gogrow for sharing this with us. He is reaching out for help. That takes a pair of balls. Your negative responses may push him away from the help he needs.
Our society is very ambiguous when it comes to alcohol. If society were serious about eliminating drunk driving, parking lots at bars would be prohibited. Every patron who drives to a bar is rolling the dice and everybody knows this, yet bars have parking lots.
I would be curious to know from those of you hurling stones: do you drink? If you drink, there always exists a possiblity you will drive impaired or have done so in the past. It only takes one time.
I applaud gogrow for sharing this with us. He is reaching out for help. That takes a pair of balls. Your negative responses may push him away from the help he needs.
