Jables&Jakoseph
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I dont know what to do, im going to keep it simple but i would love your opinions on my situation. Basically, my ex is in love with me, the reason why SHE broke up with ME is because of weed. she broke up with me this past august and ever since then we've started to talk and now we're hooking up...probably once a week. Yes, i'll admit; its partly my fault. I know you're probably thinking this guy is an idiot for even talking to his ex, but i'm the type of guy who cannot hold grudges very well. The thing is that, I love being with her and all but i just dont know if i can date her again. I could careless about her whole issue with pot, if i cared/"loved" a girl enough i could easily stop smoking. But i don't feel the same ways she does, i do have SOME feelings for her though. Right now, im at the stage in my life where i need to get things done and the last thing i need is to have a girl friend. Nor am i looking for one. I'm searching for jobs and am going to move into my mothers house (an hour and a half away from where i am now) in afew months. I dont want to be lying to her in a relationship. She keeps asking me when im going to ask her out and its starting to bother me because she's expecting it. I'm mad at myself for putting myself in this situation but its reality and i can't aviod it. I've only asked one friend for advice and what he told me was to tell her how im feeling and what i want in parts to aviod telling her everything at once and breaking her heart (although im sure ill end up breaking it anyways). although it does sound like a good idea, i was thinking that maybe it's not such a great idea. If i did end up telling her in bits, she might start to expect me to tell her more and more each time i see her which will keep her stomach in her throat and she might not know what to expect even though she'll probably know that its coming. She told me today that she just knows that i wont date her or ill find someone better. Lately she's been right about alot of things and this is one of them. Im so stuck guys, any advice asap would be greatly apreciated. ![Sad :-( :-(](/styles/smilies/icon_sad.gif)
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Thanks alot
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