Why do people enjoy kissing?

Ok so I was watching on the science channel called the "science of sex" and they explained why people enjoy sex, etc, from a scientific standpoint.
But we all know why people enjoy kissing, as we have experienced it, but whats the science behind why we enjoy it?

Fin shaggy said:

i don't know, i'm still waiting for my first kiss.

do goats count?

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Are you referring to Shannon?

That would be quite the sacrifice. cn

lmao please stay on topic

it is a turn on...like sucking a titty and biting a neck and pulling hair grabbing an ass or rubbing her pussy...all foreplay

Corso312 said:

it is a turn on...like sucking a titty and biting a neck and pulling hair grabbing an ass or rubbing her pussy...all foreplay

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haha true, but i was looking for the reason we enjoy it, everything our body experiences is what evolution made beneficial, like sex became pleasurable to build pair bonding, etc.

the reason is ..it is a turn on...feels good = do it

this is simple.. it's because the mouth is loaded with nerves, therefore kissing arouses these nerves and therefore feels good..

want to guess what other area's of the body have lots of nerves in them as well as the mouth and tongue???

Urca said:

haha true, but i was looking for the reason we enjoy it, everything our body experiences is what evolution made beneficial, like sex became pleasurable to build pair bonding, etc.

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That's your answer right there. It's bond-building. Watch the mating ritual of several species of birds, such as the albatross. These birds mate for life and have complex rituals which include beak-to-beak contact. They only do it with their mates, which suggests that kissing will cause increased production of oxytocin.

These things are probably partly learned behaviours which are then incorporated into a species' genetics because mating rates are increased for individuals who's genetics allow them to properly express this trait (it make them desirable). The successfulness of conformity to acceptable behaviours as a survival strategy is what eventually drives genetically programmed behaviour through (natural) selective breeding.

Of course conciousness means that humans tend to make things much more complicated...I do believe that apes kiss too though, to strengthen bonds, so kissing is certainly pre-homosapiens.

Just my take...

racerboy71 said:

want to guess what other area's of the body have lots of nerves in them as well as the mouth and tongue???

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I'm pretty sure I already know. lol.

Capt. Stickyfingers said:

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god, nothing bothers me more than when a chic thinks she's taking a sexy pix of herself so she makes that kissy lips, pursing your lips together pose as i think it's one of the most unattractive looks ever, and i've yet to see one chic who looks sexy while doing so..

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ok she's hot, but that stupid fucking lip thing still kills it imo.. so not doing it for me, lol.. and i'm sure all women care about doing it for me right..