Sup dude,
Asking someone for their soil blend is like asking your old ass aunt for her secret cookie recipe. She's put alot of work into perfecting it and doesn't particularly feel like giving people awesome cookies on welfare. The reason nobody is responding is because you're asking for their trade secret.
Asking what we look for is sort of a really noob question too, its posted everywhere. There are 4 things you want a balance between. These are aeration, water retention, drainage, and nutrients. Fox farms, roots organic, etc are all fortified with nutrients and beyond the nutes its no different from blending your own soil. Watch the Ready, Set, GROW! videos put out by high times magazine, the section dealing with soil will likely be very helpful.
Research what makes good soil, ask what provides moisture retention, what provides more drainage, and pick what you want for soil characteristics. Here's some tips for you to start with -
Peat moss is acidic, know that going in.
Perlite doesn't dry soil out, its just a higher volume of the soil that will not retain water. Think of it as lightweight gravel. Water runs past the rocks and out the bottom.
A canadian product you should grab is called Pro-Mix BX, it comes in 3.8 cubic foot bales or 2.8 cubic foot bags. It has no nutrient qualities whatsoever but is a perfect balance between aeration, drainage and water retention. I'd recommend using equal parts pro-mix and a compost of your choosing. Check out the sticky in marijuana plant problems/bugs subforum for rules on using composts to prevent bugs. Add 1/2 cup of dolomite lime to every cubic foot of soil you end up with, ex. 3.8 cu foot with 4 cu feet of compost you should add 4 cups of lime. You can add more, you can add less.
Either man up and buy a bag with fingers crossed, or do alot of research and plan your own. If you PM me with your proposed mix and its clear you've done research into the matter, i'll help you tweak whatever you're doing.
You sound whiny too man, if people don't want to answer, bumping and typing in caps isn't going to encourage the people who know whats up.
Good luck,
-Grizz