What The Most Memorable Sexual Experience You Have Ever Had?
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GiggleGirl
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Lost my virginity after a wonderful fun day together, a great romatic dinner and a sensual hottub. I totally had it planned, but he was fairly shocked. Still like that one, glad I could control the situation better than most of my friends' first experiences.
That one is followed closely by our next yeartogether which involved many risky semi public sexual excounters. Glad I had a chance to get it out of my system while I was still young enough not to mind if some random stranger caught a glimpse of me naked. lol.
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That one is followed closely by our next yeartogether which involved many risky semi public sexual excounters. Glad I had a chance to get it out of my system while I was still young enough not to mind if some random stranger caught a glimpse of me naked. lol.
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Lacy
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Lost my virginity after a wonderful fun day together, a great romatic dinner and a sensual hottub. I totally had it planned, but he was fairly shocked. Still like that one, glad I could control the situation better than most of my friends' first experiences.Wow. That is different for the woman to take charge in a 1st encounter. Props for you girl.
That one is followed closely by our next yeartogether which involved many risky semi public sexual excounters. Glad I had a chance to get it out of my system while I was still young enough not to mind if some random stranger caught a glimpse of me naked. lol. Yeah unknown spectators can be a real turn on for sure.Better that they don't know you than they do.
Thanks for sharing.
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CanadianCoyote
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The most memorable moment I've ever had is when I realized that being with a man did absolutely NOTHING for me, sexually. It had nothing to do with the skill of the guy I was with; he was doing a fine job but it was a superficial thing. I came out of the experience feeling a bit ashamed of myself, I was kinda hoping that I could "chase away my gay" ... but I also felt a bit better. Even though it took me a long time to accept and embrace my homosexuality, I knew, for sure, who I was. I wasn't confused anymore, nor afraid.
Lacy
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Oh wow coyote. Thanks so very much for sharing. I am so glad that all you woman are posting in here. When I first decided to add this thread I was really really nervous. After I started it I thought 'I must be friggin' crazy adding a post like this ' but now that I have seen all the woman post here it feels so much.
I've always wondered what it would be like to be completely homosexual. I'm bi-sexual and it took me a while to figure that one out also. I can remember being younger and having woman come on to me and it used to piss me off. Now I just love it.
Plus the great thing about being bi is that if you have an attraction to a female then hubby is not as threathened and finds it more entertaining than anything.
Its strange for me because I find the female body a lot more attractive than the male physique . Plus to be intimate with a woman is SOOO much different than being with a man. They understand the sensitivity part. There seems to be more room for tenderness. Of course it all depends of the people. i know there are some really butch women and some real tweebie guys out there.
Props to all of you that live your lives against the grain. I'm not sure how I would fair in that department.
I've always wondered what it would be like to be completely homosexual. I'm bi-sexual and it took me a while to figure that one out also. I can remember being younger and having woman come on to me and it used to piss me off. Now I just love it.
Plus the great thing about being bi is that if you have an attraction to a female then hubby is not as threathened and finds it more entertaining than anything.
Its strange for me because I find the female body a lot more attractive than the male physique . Plus to be intimate with a woman is SOOO much different than being with a man. They understand the sensitivity part. There seems to be more room for tenderness. Of course it all depends of the people. i know there are some really butch women and some real tweebie guys out there.
Props to all of you that live your lives against the grain. I'm not sure how I would fair in that department.
Lacy
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Does it ever happen that you have something intelligent to say Zeke DAWGGGGGGGGGGGG?
CanadianCoyote
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Thanks Lacy. ^^
It seems absurd, but I struggled with my sexuality since I was 6 or 7 years old. That's when I first noticed that girls (and women in particular) were very, very pretty and that I got a fluttery feeling whenever I was near them.
Once I hit puberty it nearly drove me nuts. I'd wake up every day wishing I didn't feel the way I did. I never had a problem with homosexuals, but for some reason the thought of actually being one was terrifying.
I'm just not attracted to men. I can appreciate a beautiful man, yes, but I'm not drawn to them. It has nothing to do with fear or disgust of the male figure, but everything to do with how I'm wired.
I got into a bit of a debate with a friend of mine the other day, he works with a lesbian and she'd told him that she'd never been with a man because she didn't like dick. "How would you know you don't like dick if you never fucked a guy!?" he asked me, and my reply was "I could ask you the same question."
He's not too bright, that one... but I love him anyway.
It seems absurd, but I struggled with my sexuality since I was 6 or 7 years old. That's when I first noticed that girls (and women in particular) were very, very pretty and that I got a fluttery feeling whenever I was near them.
Once I hit puberty it nearly drove me nuts. I'd wake up every day wishing I didn't feel the way I did. I never had a problem with homosexuals, but for some reason the thought of actually being one was terrifying.
I'm just not attracted to men. I can appreciate a beautiful man, yes, but I'm not drawn to them. It has nothing to do with fear or disgust of the male figure, but everything to do with how I'm wired.
I got into a bit of a debate with a friend of mine the other day, he works with a lesbian and she'd told him that she'd never been with a man because she didn't like dick. "How would you know you don't like dick if you never fucked a guy!?" he asked me, and my reply was "I could ask you the same question."
He's not too bright, that one... but I love him anyway.
Lacy
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Hahaha coyote. Its so funny how guys just love the idea of thinking they can turn a gay woman straight. Like there is gonna be some technique out there that only 'they' know that is gonna be the magic solution. They nenver consider that perhaps the woman might be totally ok with it but I think it hurts their ego.
I definitely find woman more attractive than men both physically and intellually. I really need mental stimulation as well as physical so intelligence is definitely attractive to me. For the most part, for me to have any type of physical attraction to a man there has to be an emotional one first. I know that sounds totally messed up and I don't understand why but it is just the way I am wired up also.
Speaking of wired up. I think I am wired up all backwards or something. I have some strange fetishes
Haha. Just thinking about it...I feel messed up.
Thats so funny that you mention about buddy asking.....what a perfect response.
I definitely find woman more attractive than men both physically and intellually. I really need mental stimulation as well as physical so intelligence is definitely attractive to me. For the most part, for me to have any type of physical attraction to a man there has to be an emotional one first. I know that sounds totally messed up and I don't understand why but it is just the way I am wired up also.
Speaking of wired up. I think I am wired up all backwards or something. I have some strange fetishes
Haha. Just thinking about it...I feel messed up.
Thats so funny that you mention about buddy asking.....what a perfect response.
CanadianCoyote
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Like I said, I love the guy but he's painfully stupid sometimes. His heart is in the right place, though. I'm trying to educate him, maybe that way he'll get a girlfriend. (He's still trying to fuck me though ... bless him.)Hahaha coyote. Its so funny how guys just love the idea of thinking they can turn a gay woman straight. Like there is gonna be some technique out there that only 'they' know that is gonna be the magic solution. They nenver consider that perhaps the woman might be totally ok with it but I think it hurts their ego.
((Yeah, for the most part they seem to feel like it's a woman's ignorance but in reality it's ignorance on their part.))
I definitely find woman more attractive than men both physically and intellually. I really need mental stimulation as well as physical so intelligence is definitely attractive to me. For the most part, for me to have any type of physical attraction to a man there has to be an emotional one first. I know that sounds totally messed up and I don't understand why but it is just the way I am wired up also.
((I have real trouble sleeping with someone I don't have an emotional connection with, but I'm not saying I'd say no to a gorgeous gal that wanted to have some fun. I like the smart ones, as they usually don't have a problem with my "ask honest questions and give honest answers" policy when it comes to sex.))
Speaking of wired up. I think I am wired up all backwards or something. I have some strange fetishes
((Oooh ... don't even go there. ^^ We all have some weird kinks.))
Haha. Just thinking about it...I feel messed up.
((Why feel messed up? It's good to know you're human.))
Thats so funny that you mention about buddy asking.....what a perfect response.
IF you never ask, you will never get.I ask the most outrageous things to see what people will do to please me. I had a girl call me ridiculous at least three times last night.
Lacy
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Haha coyote chick. I have to admit gurl...I love your attitude.
I think it is more wishful thinking. It has been my experience that half of the fun for men is in the hunt. I also think it distroys their ego thinking that some macho dude like themselves can change your mind. It is like asking a guy why they don't like men.
Yes I agree there has to be an emtional bond. I think it is most people fantasy to have mad passionate sex with a stranger so they don't have to worry about anything or feel ashamed when seeing them again BUT it hasn't been anything I have ever done.
Yes I suppose we do all have our own fettishes. LMAO!!!
Its good to know I am human
I have to tell you tho coyote gurl. I love your policy of ask honest questions...give honest answers. I think communication is ESSENTIAL to having a good sexual experience. I mean come one........if you can't even talk about it...how are you going to perform???
I like keeping communication open
I think it is more wishful thinking. It has been my experience that half of the fun for men is in the hunt. I also think it distroys their ego thinking that some macho dude like themselves can change your mind. It is like asking a guy why they don't like men.
Yes I agree there has to be an emtional bond. I think it is most people fantasy to have mad passionate sex with a stranger so they don't have to worry about anything or feel ashamed when seeing them again BUT it hasn't been anything I have ever done.
Yes I suppose we do all have our own fettishes. LMAO!!!
Its good to know I am human
I have to tell you tho coyote gurl. I love your policy of ask honest questions...give honest answers. I think communication is ESSENTIAL to having a good sexual experience. I mean come one........if you can't even talk about it...how are you going to perform???
I like keeping communication open
Lacy
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hehee ...he'll probably keep trying to fuck you too
yeah. I used to be that way to. My hubby just doesn't listen now
grrr.
Lacy
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oh and you think after 18 years my hubby doesn't know
wrong again zeke DAWGGGGGGGGGGG!!!
You're not the brightest crayon in the box are you.
heehee j/k zeke
wrong again zeke DAWGGGGGGGGGGG!!!
You're not the brightest crayon in the box are you.
heehee
j/k zeke
Im telling all your husbands
smartbadguy
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i remenber the 1st time i had sex when im high. it SUCKED but back in those day i was a light weigth maybe i can do it now
smartbadguy
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^^ i fall to sleep
Lacy
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CanadianCoyote
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True enough! But you'd figure after more than two years of being shot down he'd get the message. He works too hard to please other people though ... it's gotten him into trouble many, many times.