fuck............thats what i got.......fuck.
Me too, and I tried to dismiss it over and over again. Then someone told me that if I was thinking this, the odds are something is going on. I had to know the truth and like you, I did not want to destroy my relationship in the process. It is difficult and it isn't easy, by no means. But, you have to ask yourself what is harder, living in a relationship that may not be true, or finding out the truth. If the truth is that she has done nothing wrong, well then you will be eating some shit for some time to come. I would rather eat shit for some time to come than live with a cheater.
