The TRUTH About Men...

I found my life mate 37 years ago thank you.
It's not easy, there's give and take most youngsters don't understand that.
My wife and I have been thru things that destroy most marriages but some how we get stronger
by every challenge we meet as long as we stand togeather.
You have be willing to say your sorry and show it by stopping your end of the problem
and the other party be willing to let it go.
If they do stuff that bothers you get off your ass and help.
I could write a book on how we did it but most folks would look at it as a book of fiction...
You should! You too know what love is all about, I love it! :mrgreen:
 

medicalmaryjane

Well-Known Member
haha the thing is, i'd love to appreciate a guy, make him feel special, make him smile and feel good, take care of him within reason... but guys want a hot girl, sexy body, etc... and my face isnt ugly at all, my body however.... well im pretty big. Not like unable to walk, nor does my fat hang by my knees, but im big. Ive never had a bf, or had sex, and i got my first kiss may 1st of this year. Ive done a bit more sexually since then, but still a virgin. Im 18. Idk if there is anyone out there for me... cause i mean ive come close to having relationships before but the guy always changed his mind. wanted to be with another girl, generally way skinnier than me. So to recap, I'd love to be appreciative and loving, but there is no guy to do that for.
it's funny how they are only nice when they want something from a person... please try not to stress, you are young and have plenty of time to meet mr. right & trust me, he is out there. not every man dreams of a skinny chick. take your time & wait until you find something special, there is no reason to rush. it really is their loss.

have you ever tried losing weight? i know it's not easy but it's not impossible.
 

Big P

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wow when i first saw this I thought it was retaliation for the several "I cant understand women threads"

what a pleasent surprise.


You the OP must not be an american Women lol


I regard foriegn women more highly as they still apprieciate being treated like women rather than trying to act like a men which is how a lot of american gurls act lol.



but maybe theres too many men in america who act like metrosexual bitches too.

what happend to back in the day when men acted like men and women acted like women?
 

Big P

Well-Known Member
you guys think there a correlation with the feminist movement overload and the divorce rate in america?
 

Big P

Well-Known Member
ya but where did the metros come from? too much plastic use? i heard using plastic a lot increases estrogen.


and by the way, why are you picking metrosexual men?? theres millions of real ones out there, must not be looking in the right places.
 

medicalmaryjane

Well-Known Member
i have a man.

i had a friend who said eating soy can increase estrogen. soy is in everything now...

i like metros, they are physically a turn off to me - i wouldn't want to date one but they make good friends.

why do you pick on feminists?
 
wow when i first saw this I thought it was retaliation for the several "I cant understand women threads"

what a pleasent surprise.


You the OP must not be an american Women lol


I regard foriegn women more highly as they still apprieciate being treated like women rather than trying to act like a men which is how a lot of american gurls act lol.



but maybe theres too many men in america who act like metrosexual bitches too.

what happend to back in the day when men acted like men and women acted like women?
All American right here! A traditionalist with true traditional American morals & values. You're are right... the times have changed. I will blame the feminist act.
 

Big P

Well-Known Member
i have a man.

i had a friend who said eating soy can increase estrogen. soy is in everything now...

i like metros, they are physically a turn off to me - i wouldn't want to date one but they make good friends.

why do you pick on feminists?


I dont know but i seem to end up with alpha bitches.


maybe cuz im laid back and chilled out, I like an aggressive gurl i guess. I guess i gravitate to bitchy gurls so i can battle them for control & try to conquor them. Guess it makes me feel like more of a man lol.



crazy is fun at first. but try living with crazy. not as fun as just partying with crazy and slammin her head against the headboard lol.
 

Big P

Well-Known Member
All American right here! A traditionalist with true traditional American morals & values. You're are right... the times have changed. I will blame the feminist act.
a gurl like you I would shower with gifts and affection. my big thing is if you never ask you will always get. I hate women who are constantly askin for shit. Those are the ones I never want to give anything too.


the ones who never ask fot anything deserve every last ounce of my soul. i tell my g/f that all the time but she is less than convinced lol


I never ask my friends for shit, even if they offer me a bite of some food or somthing and im starving. Id rather not leach. and ive noticed that I get way more from them by never wanting anything.


i also give them shit all the time though too
 
a gurl like you I would shower with gifts and affection. my big thing is if you never ask you will always get. I hate women who are constantly askin for shit. Those are the ones I never want to give anything too.


the ones who never ask fot anything deserve every last ounce of my soul. i tell my g/f that all the time but she is less than convinced lol


I never ask my friends for shit, even if they offer me a bite of some food or somthing and im starving. Id rather not leach. and ive noticed that I get way more from them by never wanting anything.


i also give them shit all the time though too
So true... like what OldReefer said "it's kinda like....give just a little bit more, take a little bit less from each other ." Well said.

& ROTF about your girl! She's funny ;)
 

Mort Fink

New Member
A woman from China will act way different and have different customs than a woman from say Brazil. You can't lump all women in one boat and all men in another, bottom line!! . People are different all across the board and some guys act more like women than a man and vice versa.
 
A woman from China will act way different and have different customs than a woman from say Brazil. You can't lump all women in one boat and all men in another, bottom line!! . People are different all across the board and some guys act more like women than a man and vice versa.
I think you are misunderstanding the meaning of this thread. It's about how men are appreciated.... not about how all women are the same, & men are all the same.....

you must be a woman ;)
 

fishwhistle

Active Member
I found my life mate 37 years ago thank you.
It's not easy, there's give and take most youngsters don't understand that.
My wife and I have been thru things that destroy most marriages but some how we get stronger
by every challenge we meet as long as we stand togeather.
You have be willing to say your sorry and show it by stopping your end of the problem
and the other party be willing to let it go.
If they do stuff that bothers you get off your ass and help.
I could write a book on how we did it but most folks would look at it as a book of fiction...
32 years for this old man...
 
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