BygonEra
Well-Known Member
It's not narrow-minded judgement, and it might be wrong, but I started my sentence out with "I feel like". Have you ever known a female porn star or stripper before and after taking a job like that? Because I have, and I've noticed two trends: 1. having a job like that creates judgement and that can seriously hurt your feelings of self worth, and 2. it can totally change your lifestyle. My best friend in middle school, whom I've known for over a decade, is now a stripper and is making great money. She works at one of those totally nude places and gets paid top dollar. Growing up, she had some hard core moral values that don't even exist to her anymore. She has genital herpes, warts, HPV, has been treated for a ton, is addicted to Molly, and is the most insecure person I know. It's just sad. She puts off this very fake confidence and it's so obvious.That's a very narrow-minded value judgement IMO, and in many cases very wrong. It is sad that people think this way, that their 'position in the world' is so lowly yet repeatedly demonstrates that they are an industry in extremely high demand all over the world. IMO, your attitude is the result of western, Christian brainwashing.
I didn't say porn stars were stupid... Like you said, it's in extremely high demand all over the world and you can make a shit ton of money fast. It certainly has it's benefits. But at the same time, I think there's a LOT of emotional baggage that goes along with it and you have to be an INCREDIBLY confident and secure person to not let that get to your head and throw away your morals.
And BTW, there's no "Christian brainwashing" occurring in my head... I'm anything but a Christian, sorry. That said, I do have a pretty western culture upbringing lol.. not that it matters. I don't think people realize how easy it is to destroy a woman's sense of self worth.