the wife should leave.
A group of people calling themselves the government have been made "the government" by the greater group of people, they didn't just take that possition.
That group doesn't give me a block of cheese now and then, they manage my country for me, they may do a poor job, if they do I will find another group.
So long as you use any facilities of this country, then you pay the entire price of admission, you pay for the monkey cage, I pay for the monkey cage. You don't like the cobras but you pay because you do like the zebras. I like the cobras but I pay for the zebras even though I don't like them because you do. We all pay for all of the zoo so that we can enjoy the parts we like and ignore the parts we don't.