Support or Oppose Public Nudity? (with Poll)

ginwilly said:

I guess you missed the part where I said I'm cool with it but 12 year old me would have been traumatized. Think of cheeeeeldren man! That's really all I'm saying. It should be perfectly legal to feed your baby, but if Chucky Cheese wanted a policy against doing during kids birthday parties, I'd respect that.

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I wouldn't be. It's not traumatizing at all. I grew up with a fundamental christian family. We never thought bad of feeding a person, ever. How would you feel if you had diabetes and the owner was a Scientologist who harassed you from giving yourself a insulin shot? When a baby has to eat, it has to eat. Respect that. If you don't want kids, make a no kids policy, period. But if your establishment is is a kid place, like Chuck E Cheese's, understand that the baby can't feed itself. Even the Constitution says, "life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness." I am thinking of the children. I personally think nothing wrong with no shirts, but if there is sanitary reasons or a dress code. Your crotch is a totally different thing. It's for expelling waste and making a baby. Whatever else you do is your business too. But only on your own time.

wow Canna. The mom can cover up and feed the baby, take the baby to the bathroom and feed him or a myriad of other choices that do not entail bringing the tit out during a kids party at Chucky Cheese. You're being a bit extreme saying the baby will starve otherwise. I respect your right to breast feed your baby, why can't you respect my right to ask you not to do that in middle of my kids party? Some parents feel their children are not mature enough to deal with such, especially those in the jr high hormones in tennis shoe stage. Why do those parents have to live under your rules in a public place? It's different if they are on your property, then they can stfu and deal. You get to make the rules there.

ginwilly said:

wow Canna. The mom can cover up and feed the baby, take the baby to the bathroom and feed him or a myriad of other choices that do not entail bringing the tit out during a kids party at Chucky Cheese. You're being a bit extreme saying the baby will starve otherwise. I respect your right to breast feed your baby, why can't you respect my right to ask you not to do that in middle of my kids party? Some parents feel their children are not mature enough to deal with such, especially those in the jr high hormones in tennis shoe stage. Why do those parents have to live under your rules in a public place? It's different if they are on your property, then they can stfu and deal. You get to make the rules there.

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Not mature enough to see a baby eat? If you said that to my wife, one of us would be knocked out. Most likely we'd not be friends anymore either. Society is extremely fucked up if you can talk about how gay men live their life sticking their dick up another ass in a kindergarten class. If you complain the principal calls the cops. Yet, people get their panties in a bunch when a baby just wants to eat.

ginwilly said:

Some parents feel their children are not mature enough to deal with such, especially those in the jr high hormones in tennis shoe stage..

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There is something terribly wrong with parents that raise children to not understand breast feeding and a small amount of bare flesh. If your children need that much shielding then keep them at home, get rid of TV, the internet and do home schooling. Attitudes like this only serves to create perverted monsters since its TABOO to see a mother feeding her baby.

Canna Sylvan said:

Not mature enough to see a baby eat? If you said that to my wife, one of us would be knocked out. Most likely we'd not be friends anymore either. Society is extremely fucked up if you can talk about how gay men live their life sticking their dick up another ass in a kindergarten class. If you complain the principal calls the cops. Yet, people get their panties in a bunch when a baby just wants to eat.

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They don't really describe anal sex do they?

Most women wouldn't pull a tit out in front of teenagers without some kind of shield (shirt).

I pulled my tit out to feed my baby in front of a 4 and a 6 year old. They didn't care. As soon as it was time to change the baby's diaper they were so focused on her. lol

Flaming Pie said:

They don't really describe anal sex do they?

Most women wouldn't pull a tit out in front of teenagers without some kind of shield (shirt).

I pulled my tit out to feed my baby in front of a 4 and a 6 year old. They didn't care. As soon as it was time to change the baby's diaper they were so focused on her. lol

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Probably not. But what do you think kids are going to talk about with other kids, especially the older ones. "Hey Johnny, what's so different about two guys living together rather than a mommy and daddy." I knew where you stuck it to get a baby in the first grade. I don't want my kids knowing about two dudes doing stuff. Kids are impressionable. If I want to be a puritan with my children about sex of any kind, especially butt sex, that's my choice. The school doesn't have any right to say either way, homo or hetero, is correct. That's my duty as a parent. That's why my children are homeschooled. Not letting kids know about sticking it in the caboose isn't going to turn them into a serial killer or anything.

Canna Sylvan said:

Not mature enough to see a baby eat? If you said that to my wife, one of us would be knocked out. Most likely we'd not be friends anymore either. Society is extremely fucked up if you can talk about how gay men live their life sticking their dick up another ass in a kindergarten class. If you complain the principal calls the cops. Yet, people get their panties in a bunch when a baby just wants to eat.

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Yep, same page on this one. I agree that it's not as big a deal as we make it. You are painting it as though by not letting your wife breast feed at the table of 10 year olds birthday party that baby must starve. That's not the case I'm making. A feeding between mother and baby is very sacred, if she chooses to share that experience with me, cool. If my wife says she'd be more comfortable not letting the neighborhood kids partake in the sharing, she's not being a monster and respecting her position doesn't make us weak. Of course it's only a big deal because we make it a big deal. We would never stop a child from watching a puppy eat, so why should a baby be different? Because society makes it different. Wrong or right, that's the path our country took.

I work in the medical field, after seeing boobs ranging from new born to 100 they have lost any shock value they held as a teen. Like I said, for me it's not an issue. But if Chucky Cheese wants her to wear a feeding towel and cover up, I believe they have that right. If your baby is at risk by not being allowed to eat in the open in the middle of a birthday party for 5th graders then the obvious answer would be to not take the baby to Chucky Cheese. Why does it have to be more complicated than that?

But I do understand where your coming from. A woman can get up on stage and show her tits and get paid for it, slap a baby on her nipple and people gasp and want to lock her up. It's fucked up as you say. I don't think talking to kindergarteners about dicks in asses is proper either. I also don't think we should teach fisting to jr high kids but apparently that's OK too. Yes society is fucked up, but I'm for politeness and respect. I respect your right to breast feed where others also respect that right. I also respect the right of a business to ask you to cover it up if that's what they want. Why is that evil?

PurpleBuz said:

There is something terribly wrong with parents that raise children to not understand breast feeding and a small amount of bare flesh. If your children need that much shielding then keep them at home, get rid of TV, the internet and do home schooling. Attitudes like this only serves to create perverted monsters since its TABOO to see a mother feeding her baby.

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For fuck sake do I have to say it again? I don't have any problems with a mother feeding her baby whatsoever. If a business doesn't want that going on it's their right. What the fuck is wrong with people these days? Everyone has lost all respect for property rights and expects us to all bend to their will.

If a business has practices and policies that I don't agree with I don't go there. I will not shop at Walmart or buy Monsanto products. But I'm not picketing and forcing them to change those practices. I don't like them, so I won't shop there, I won't work there, I won't give them my money and I'll encourage others to do the same. Obviously others do like their policies and practices, because they are very successful, and have every right to shop there if they choose. It's that simple.