so i got a date tomorrow... nervous

dannyboy602

dannyboy602

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Urca said:
he's really funny, sweet, kind, hella smart... but 8 years older than me. im excited but at the same time i have misgivings
A) I have feelings for another guy-but we arent talking anymore
B) Im kinda talking to this one guy and he's fucked up alot and hurt me, but he's moving to my town and Im kinda considering giving him a chance
c) Ive only ever kissed one guy before (numerous occaisions however)... what if im not all that good, or not on the same level as him...
Anyway this guy loves that im big, thinks im sexy, smart, funny... Just hella nervous
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Ahhh. The continuing saga of Urcas love life...ok here's what I'd do.
1 forget the other guy and don't compare the new guy to the old one. You're not even giving him a chance before he
walks through the door. You will always have "feelings overlap" between boyfriends. It's normal.
2 don't let me find out that you are one of those girls that crave abuse. I've seen it a million times. They must have low self esteem.
If a guy hurts you once he'll do it again. If you let him hurt you once you'll do it again too.
3 pretend you've kissed a thousand guys and just relax. And besides. You want to see what kind of man he is. Allow HIM to kiss YOU
 
tet1953

tet1953

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dannyboy602 said:
Ahhh. The continuing saga of Urcas love life...ok here's what I'd do.
1 forget the other guy and don't compare the new guy to the old one. You're not even giving him a chance before he
walks through the door. You will always have "feelings overlap" between boyfriends. It's normal.
2 don't let me find out that you are one of those girls that crave abuse. I've seen it a million times. They must have low self esteem.
If a guy hurts you once he'll do it again. If you let him hurt you once you'll do it again too.
3 pretend you've kissed a thousand guys and just relax. And besides. You want to see what kind of man he is. Allow HIM to kiss YOU
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All good advice here dannyboy
 
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NoobgrowerLbc

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Sup dankster, i got bored being the villan mabe when someone bring up a racist thread ill be back lol that shit was fucking halarious it got deleted but it was a very engauging thread
 
Urca

Urca

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im 5'2 and not telling my weight... and it got canceled for today, car broke down
 
medicalmaryjane

medicalmaryjane

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Urca said:
im 5'2 and not telling my weight... and it got canceled for today, car broke down
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that sucks dood. i am sorry your date got cancelled. why do guys think it's funny if someone asks weight. i doubt you're even "fat", maybe just a bit larger than average. people view themselves based on unrealistic standards.
 
Urca

Urca

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oh im fat... trust me. not like cant move or walk or find clothes to wear, but im pretty heavy
 
tet1953

tet1953

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Have you looked around lately? Dunno about where you all live, but everywhere I go it seems like there are more heavy people than "normal" or thin people (the mall notwithstanding, that's skewed by the skinny teen set).
It's not that I obsess or look for it or anything, but it is an observation I have made on more than one occasion. And it is merely an observation, not a criticism. A bit alarming, though.
 
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