Hi Knowm, bow. I will have to desagree with you on this one Knowm, however I am open to discuss this further, the following thoughts arose from my own experience, or lessons...Well first of all, is our discussion real?Somewhat I guess, it is the exchange of ideas that seem real or true to me and you...Can 2 ideas be simillar? Sure, maybe not axactly same but close...Can two people share and aggree with those beliefs and ideas? Can they have similar goals?I think so... When I met my wife we both realised that we share similar beliefs and goals...NOT SAME , similar...It was and still is fun to share this lifetime with her and yes there are plenty of lessons to be learned, mostly in humility, compromise and compassion...We really never wanted to be married ,but douring her first pregnancy she had a hormonal freak out and all of a sudden she wanted to get married (she calls her self a recovering catholic sometimes LOL) married or not really made no difference to me so 2 days later we were married...Didnt change anything, we laugh about it still...She is a person on the spiritual path and so am I, we still traveling our own roads, learning and teaching each other along the way...I belive there are many misconceptions about marrige...Mariage has nothing to do with money or posessions, to me, the partnersship is real ,the house , cars, money not so much...If the partnership ends, fook it, she can keep it all, I will actually feel lighter without it... Marriage has nothing to do with monogomy or jealousy, no one owns anyone...If she or I need to experience a person or a situation, we should be able to...(an idea t0 be honest that I brought in to this partnership, however I was promissed a threesome so we will see)Is there trouth about marriage? Every marriage is differrent...Better question would be "Is there a trouth within a marriage?"Yes, there is a trouth in ours, there are actually two of them, little humans who need attention, love and guidence...Little humans who one day will cary on our joined beliefs, ideals and goals, (neither one of us alone can give them that what we can give them together, mostly compromise, compassion, humility...I love you too , peace.