Little update...
Mary: Has gotten much bigger, and is showing new growth in many places. It appears I burnt her a little bit- the bottom leaves are discoloring and drying out, so Ive stopped nutrient supplement and have begun flushing. It looks better today than yesterday. No signs of sex yet- its been in 12/12 light for about a week now.
Jane: Still staying very low to the ground, not growing as quickly as mary did. I was thinking to myself... if the lights are too far away from a sprout, the sprout will stretch to reach more light. So I applied this theory to Jane, moving her lights up from 2-3" away to about a foot away. Hopefully she'll start growing vertically soon.
The babies: I cant seem to get it right with these things... they dry out so fast. I have to water multiple times a day to keep the soil wet, but then they start wilting from over watering. I started giving each plant about a tablespoon each watering, about twice a day. They seem to be doing better- I was just eyeballing it before. Lots of new growth and good color on them though. The stems are purple.