This is one of those times where time and time again has just added up. I've been here before, questioning the relationship, and have just dismissed it to save things, and again and again it's like the same old story.. I've decided it's toxic, meaning I put more into it than I get out of it, and I think my time would be better spent investing in people who want to invest in me too
There is a big difference between saying sorry and meaning it and saying sorry if you think it will save a relationship, the latter is almost worse than not saying it at all..
I understand what you mean, but I don't think this situation centers around loyalty. She judged me in a situation I would have never expected, I asked her something trusting I'd get a pretty simple response and her reaction made me feel worthless. Coming from her, someone I felt like I trusted at the time, was very unusual..
Same here, I'll still talk to her, but I'm not going to hang out with her or be friends with her.. After this happened it all just feels totally fake at this point.. It's weird too because I feel like what she said (hormones or not) wouldn't ever cross my mind. I know that for that sort of stuff to even be considered, underlying issues must be present.. So regardless of if she said what she said because she was pissed or hormonal, she still meant it. That can't be taken back by simply saying "I'm sorry"...
So what's a "true friend"? I've got a friend I've known over a decade who has never said anything close to what this person said to me. That's what I consider a friend. People who make you feel good about being yourself.
