I had a ball python and I loved that snake...I actually still miss him.
Nicest reptile ever, I could of stepped on him and he wouldn't have done zilch.
Also I found he was very therapeutic...he used to give the best damn neck massages in the world lol
He was rather curious though
I could pet his head and he wouldn't mind. When I would do that I'd usually get bitten or get "the stare".
I say return it and get a Boa or a Python, they literally be turned into a lap pets hehe