rant/venting

ii dP ii

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ugh.... so irritated right now.

so long story short; I am growing at another persons house, and this person has relatives who are apparently very anti-growing. now I don't know how these relatives found out about the grow, obviously SOMEBODY needs to learn to keep their fucking mouth shut. anyway, problem now is these relatives are basically threatening to never come over again (they have kids and don't want them in the same house as weed plants) unless my grow is shut down. I can't just say fuck off because the person who's house it is obviously isn't willing to lose a family relationship just cause I'm growing there.

so basically it looks like I'm being forced out of the growing game for now. this is total bullshit I never even got to pop my good genetics.

I guess I should have journal'd this post, sorry guys but I'm venting right now.
 

junker1

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That seems to be the name of the game for a lot of people that start growing. It took me 2 years and 4 moves before i got my permanent grow location.
 

ii dP ii

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it sucks. I own my home, and there's PLENTY of room to have a small 3-4 plant grow going here, but the wife is FULLY terrified of the law coming after me, so I can't do it at home until the laws change here (probably 7-10 years IMO before my state legalizes it). is just total bullshit mang.


my current plan is to work on her lol. trying to convince her that a tiny grow like mine would never attract attention from Johnny. I don't sell, I have like 3 friends total lol, nobody would know. so stressed.
 

tip top toker

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It' not bullshit at all. The grow i not in your house, the owner of that houe can do whatever they please, they could bin it all simply becaue why not, and you don't get to say anything. I'd say the bullshit i that you are moaning about someone else not wanting a grow in their house. They have every right to close down hop at any moment of the day with no warning, you fully accepted that possibility when you grew in someone elses house and as such have absolutely no right to complain. Stop acting like a child.
 

budbro18

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Its the family members who are acting childish and ignorant and the homeowner is acting upon that.

He has every right to be upset. Agreeing to let someone grow in your house should at least allow one full harvest. Is a couple months really going to kill whoever the family members are??

"Them weeds are gonna get my babies high just from being in the same dang gum house" while they probably smoke in the car/house with their kids in it hahaha.

These people need to be the ones to stop complaining and open their eyes to the fact that weed is one of the few if not the only drug you can make from start to finish without it releasing any type of nasty chemicals into the air. Except o2. hahaha

I was lucky enough to have a friend who already has a house and they recently had a kid. Are we shuttin down? Hell no, because if anything, it makes the air in the house better than worse. We have very little if any risk of fire, and keep everything contained within a room. Its like its not even there.

So for someone to say they dont feel like they or their kids are safe in a house thats growing weed is dumb. Maybe if you lived in a real shitty part of town and the whole block knew you were growing. That wouldnt be the best because potential robberies. But if that was the case you shouldnt be a grower anyway if you cant keep your mouth shut.

Hope you find a knew home to grow OP!!
 

tip top toker

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Or one could argue that the parents don't like weed, no similar to mine, and do not kids in a house where they may be exposed to them, or where they might find it and take some and bring it to school etc etc etc. There is nothing to debate. The family do not want their kids around a cannabis grow, that is their right, and the home owner does not want to create a situation where his family will not visit. These people are perfectly within their rights to make these decisions. The OP however has absolutely no right to bitch. He knew full well that if the grow was in someone elses house, he had no say over the grows future at said house.
 

Walter9999

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the homeowner is in the right and you are wrong...you have no rights to complain in this situation...you seem to follow your wife's rules for growing at your house, how can you not respect the persons decision at your current grow house? Bad situation...do the right thing and move it...sorry
 

tip top toker

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Don't get me wrong, i can understand that you must be dissappointed, but i just consider it daft to complain when someone stops doing you a favor, as opposed to being thankful that you got the opportunity to begin with.
 

budbro18

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haha thats not how we do things around here but ok...

Obviously its homeowners rules in the end, but when i start growing in someones house, they become a partner in a business. So they throw in half on everything. and 99.9999% of the time they would at least want to finish a first run then pack it up. Reclaim any losses, sell equipment, etc.... instead of just shuttin it down right this second. Because if i threw down a few hundred to a thousand or so id want every penny of that back.


Maybe its just me but id tell my family that it doesnt harm a single person and that theyre better off not seeing me if theyre going to avoid me because of some bullshit like that.

In the end its the homeowners fault.

If he cant keep his mouth shut and cant tell his family to fuck off he shouldnt have allowed OP to start up and should reimburse OP for any money spent in a potential grow.

I just treat shit like a real business. If you invest and i dont create a return in profits, i pay it out of my pocket. Simple as that.


OP, youre better off out of there IMO. But feel free to be pissed. He shouldnt have allowed/agreed to a grow if he couldnt finish it.
 

jondamon

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Depending upon the size of your grow, you could build a partition wall in a room with a discrete door in it. Maybe behind a book shelf or something.

I bet your wife likes the money when it comes in.

So noes the time she has to allow you the area to build your grow.

Keep on top of smells and noise. Make sure no one knows where you've built your room and hey presto a hidden grow room.


My wife got a bit twitchy after I got busted 2 years ago. It took me all of a month to start back up again.


Just got to lay it to her in no uncertain terms that without you doing it at your house that there's no extra money for her to play with.




J
 

Beblunted

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So man I just gotta say that it dose suck that you getting shit down, but what you got remember is pot may not be a bad drug at all, Infact it's kind of a good a good drug, but as a parent and a long time smoker/ new grower, what you gotta realize is that there is bad shit that comes with pot cuz it's illegal, and there are pushers who are generally bad people, and not mention if for some odd reson cops or child protective services came and smelt it, and trust me they will smell it, the children would be taking faster then you can fucking blink,
And as a parent that's the worst fear you can possibaly think of, all there trying to do is keep there kids safe from any bull shit

Not to mention, kids are easily impressionable, so easy it's not even funny. So they say" oh so an so smokes n grows , so it's okay that I do it." They do it, now some kids can do it but some cant, and they dont realize that they shluld wait tell there a bit older While it ain't the worst thing they can do it does open doors to different people, while not all of them bad alot are


Not to say that there ain't bad people regardless
 

aka.lexx

Member
Hey your just venting, I can't knock you for wanting to speak your mind. I would be upset. If your buddy knew there was gonna be a problem, should of just told you from the get go. Would of saved lots of time and headache which you could of put towards finding another location.. Maybe you can try smooth talking wifey, see if maybe she will budge. So at least maybe you can keep some of those ladies alive.
 

Beblunted

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That's a good point aka lexxx, the person who your doin it with could of have you a a hit that it might go south, I've only grown with one person other then my self and that cuz there's no chance of probablems, and were still going strong,

And the wife's are some of the hardest peoe to get to come around, it didn't take long for my old lady to come aroun to it, but she knew how my I love it, so she didn't feel right stopping me
 

BWG707

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You learned a very important lesson about growing- growing with a partner rarely works out well. And in your situation there is nothing you can do about it- it's their house. You don't want a family to be broken up over this. Wait until you are able to find your own private grow space. I waited for years and years before I was able to comfortably grow somewhere. GL.
 

MonkeyGrinder

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Well I'm not sure about your location but if you're stateside then outdoor season is closing in. I was browsing through your journals and seen you had some RQ skunk #1 beans. If those are left over still then I'll tell you right now that they do excellent outdoors. I got em as freebies last year and I was extremely pleased with them.
 

ii dP ii

Member
It' not bullshit at all. The grow i not in your house, the owner of that houe can do whatever they please, they could bin it all simply becaue why not, and you don't get to say anything. I'd say the bullshit i that you are moaning about someone else not wanting a grow in their house. They have every right to close down hop at any moment of the day with no warning, you fully accepted that possibility when you grew in someone elses house and as such have absolutely no right to complain. Stop acting like a child.
whoa there bossman, not sure what bug crawled up your ass from my post there, but I don't think I came off like a child at all. I believe in my first paragraph I quite clearly accepted the consequences right off the bat. I made it clear that I was simply venting.

Or one could argue that the parents don't like weed, no similar to mine, and do not kids in a house where they may be exposed to them, or where they might find it and take some and bring it to school etc etc etc. There is nothing to debate. The family do not want their kids around a cannabis grow, that is their right, and the home owner does not want to create a situation where his family will not visit. These people are perfectly within their rights to make these decisions. The OP however has absolutely no right to bitch. He knew full well that if the grow was in someone elses house, he had no say over the grows future at said house.
I also made this point in the OP. I would never put someone in the position to choose between their family and a simple weed grow. that would be very rude of me.

also, I came here to bitch about it because you are right. I don't have a leg to stand on bitching about it to the person involved, and again, it would be rude of me to do so. thank god for the interwebz.

the homeowner is in the right and you are wrong...you have no rights to complain in this situation...you seem to follow your wife's rules for growing at your house, how can you not respect the persons decision at your current grow house? Bad situation...do the right thing and move it...sorry
the homeowner was and still is 100% in favor of me growing at their house. they are getting some product out of it as well, its not like I'm just using them for their pad. they are simply in a bind at this point due to pressure from the family. I already said that I was shutting it down literally in the first post. I don't know why anyone would think based on my post that I was trying to fight the homeowner on this. again, I made it quite clear that I was only venting my frustrations.

Hey your just venting, I can't knock you for wanting to speak your mind. I would be upset. If your buddy knew there was gonna be a problem, should of just told you from the get go. Would of saved lots of time and headache which you could of put towards finding another location.. Maybe you can try smooth talking wifey, see if maybe she will budge. So at least maybe you can keep some of those ladies alive.
I mean the person didn't know this was going to be an issue, really it's my fault. I let it slip to someone I shouldn't have and that person is who I'm thinking mentioned it to the folks who are now mad about it... so obviously at this point WAAAAY to many people know what the story is and it's 100% for the best that I move on to the next locale anyway.

and I made it through 2 harvests with this spot, I just harvested and dried my last plant and was getting ready for round 3 when I got the call. round 3 was going to be white widow x big bud and probably northern lights x skunk both in 3 gal pots mainlined for 8 or maybe 16 heads.

Well I'm not sure about your location but if you're stateside then outdoor season is closing in. I was browsing through your journals and seen you had some RQ skunk #1 beans. If those are left over still then I'll tell you right now that they do excellent outdoors. I got em as freebies last year and I was extremely pleased with them.
thanks man, I actually do have them still, and I was thinking about doing a small outdoor grow this season actually. still scouting locations but I have a few spots I think might be ok for a plant or two.
 

althor

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You should explain to your wife how the chances of you getting popped are greatly enhanced by going out and picking up from the streets.
A small discrete grow, properly done, is about as low risk as you can get in an illegal state if you are a smoker.
If she doesn't understand that, I recommend a divorce.
 

ii dP ii

Member
^ yeah I've tried that, she's got real bad anxiety. I started growing at my house first, when I told her about it she was kind of ok with it at first, but literally by the end of the week it was all she could think about. she was like terrified that at any minute the cops were gonna come get me or something.

I don't really understand why she can forget about it when it's elsewhere cause I mean in reality the danger to me is still the same no matter where it is lol. but whatever I had to do I was gonna. so I dunno, I'm gonna try to work on her but it looks like I'm probably out of the game for a while.
 
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