Truth man.
The worst.
Family wants everything for free and doesn't want to hear the truth.
If you don't feel like playing the game it can be very stressful.
Two years ago at Xmas I ended up telling most of them why they couldn't touch my gas line and hook up a dryer I didn't want.
Telling them they were incompetent wasn't good enough; so eventually we got into the good stuff, and two of them attacked me in seperate little incidents.
Neither of them will even talk to me anymore, and frankly it is a blessing.
Oh yeah - the dryer - is/was broke and now I got two broken dryers in my basement.
Thanks for nothing.