Puppy Love... Litterally

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Michael Phelps

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So my cousin/roomate has been dating this girl now for about 3 months, she is a chill girl, down to earth, likes to smoke bud, not really any drama(yet), thing is she kinda seems like the person thats never not in a relationship, always hearing stories about this ex or that ex, i dont know she is way cool but for some reason their really is just something i dont trust, i dont know what it is. Anyway i mean they literally have spent every single day together for the last 3 months, she is over spending the night every single night, I hear them having hella loud sex like twice a day.. Kinda gets awkward after a while.. Anyways point being they really are to the point where they say I love you and all that shit, he buys her everything, i mean new tires for her car, dinner every night, presents and all this other shit... I dont know what it is but that puppy love bullshit annoy's the hell out of me, it annoy's me to see my best friend of 21 years so fuckin love struck and pussy whipped.. I mean to the point where he already wants her to move in officially, talks about the possibilities of her getting pregnant and how he would be down to start a family and shit.. I mean i can see if this were like a 2 year relationship how those things might start coming together but 3 months is ridiculous.. His girlfriend is always looking at puppy's on the laptop in awe, just puppy's blah blah blah.. We already have a dog, cat, and turtle, i feel like im living in the animal kingdom as it is. Well he just called me and told me that he just bought a puppy for his girl.. Shit that just means one more addition to our already big enough animal kingdom.. Not to mention the drama over who gets the dog in the case of a break up..

Not to mention my cousin told her about how i grow pot in my room which fucking sucks more then fucking anything because now if anything at all happens with their relationship i have to stop growing, i wont risk the crazy ex-girlfriend trying to get revenge by telling the cops about my operation...

Fucking fuck puppy love, fuck i fuckin hate it..

Anyways just needed to vent
 
jhopkins34

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Totally man that fucking sucks man for sure, I'm not sure how your grow is setup in your room, but seeing you recently harvested, I'm guessing their not pass veg or are just going into flowering, so they could still be small enough to hide fairly well, as far as smell, not completely sure but if you constantly have bud around anyway she maybe use to it, so my suggestion is hiding your grow in your room if you can and tell them/ her that you stopped, just to be safe, if you can't then if she is real chill then you'll probably be fine, just make sure that it doesn't keep spreading
 
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Michael Phelps

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jhopkins34 said:
Totally man that fucking sucks man for sure, I'm not sure how your grow is setup in your room, but seeing you recently harvested, I'm guessing their not pass veg or are just going into flowering, so they could still be small enough to hide fairly well, as far as smell, not completely sure but if you constantly have bud around anyway she maybe use to it, so my suggestion is hiding your grow in your room if you can and tell them/ her that you stopped, just to be safe, if you can't then if she is real chill then you'll probably be fine, just make sure that it doesn't keep spreading
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Well she was around for the last few weeks of flower, and i actually just started a new grow so they are in the seedling stage, problem is i grow dwc so i cant really move and hide the plants because they are in my 25gl reservoir.. I have it all set up in a wardrobe in my room, i mean its not to noisy, its pretty stealthy and i just modded it so its even better now so its really quiet has absolutely no way for anybody to figit the doors and see light, smell is no problem cause i have an excellent carbon filter.. Its just the fact that im in my room alot and i wont ever let anyone go in their.. I mean she doesnt the extent of my growing, from what he told her is that ive experimented with it alittle.. But i mean i smoke alot of bud, always the same 2 strains so i dont know how she hasnt put it together..
 
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Michael Phelps

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robert 14617 said:
you my friend are screwed all the way around sorry to hear about your situation...rob
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Thanks man.. I mean she doesnt know the extent of it and im not going to tell her.. As long as they are good and happy im fine with her thinking i might have a little plant on my window seal or something.. But if they break up and tearing shit down cause im def not gonna risk getting robbed or busted for because of their problems..
 
sunni

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honestly it will either end bad or its true love i met my current bf weve been dating for over 2 years we pretty much did the same thing now though we spend time apart with our own friends its just the beginning of love is like you wanna spend a lot of time together its new theres butterflies and it feels awesome id be happy for him
 
SocataSmoker

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So you're mad because your cousin/roommate has found someone he loves and that loves him?

Sounds like someone just isn't getting any... there is not one single "problem" in your whole post, just seems like you're bitching about someone being happy.
 
jumboSWISHER

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naw man, ethically you should be happy. but when ur sitting there all day n shit i can deffinatly understand what your saying. going through pretty much the same thing with my big brother and his..wife. atleast shes not ur new sister bro... hahaha
 
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Michael Phelps

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SocataSmoker said:
So you're mad because your cousin/roommate has found someone he loves and that loves him?

Sounds like someone just isn't getting any... there is not one single "problem" in your whole post, just seems like you're bitching about someone being happy.
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Literally i dont care about anything you say, I think your a system loving douche bag.. You get in more arguments then just about anybody on this forum... Also
you must have not read my whole fucking post asshole... The fact that he told her i grow pot!!!! How is that not a fucking problem? Consider yourself ignored socata cop...
 
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Michael Phelps

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sunni said:
honestly it will either end bad or its true love i met my current bf weve been dating for over 2 years we pretty much did the same thing now though we spend time apart with our own friends its just the beginning of love is like you wanna spend a lot of time together its new theres butterflies and it feels awesome id be happy for him
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Its not the fact that im not happy for him, cause i am.. Its the fact that i have to deal with alot of bullshit that makes my living situation uncomfortable.. Like i said it would be one thing if they had been dating for 2 years like yourself, it another when a couple has been together for 3 months and are discussing their "love" and the possibilities of starting a family together... Thats just ridiculous..

Nothing drives me more crazy then someone acting different for someone else..
 
GreatwhiteNorth

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SocataSmoker said:
So you're mad because your cousin/roommate has found someone he loves and that loves him?

Sounds like someone just isn't getting any... there is not one single "problem" in your whole post, just seems like you're bitching about someone being happy.
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Soc - we rarely disagree but I do see a very large potential prob in the Op's post. His cover is blown, an "unknown" person knows and that would be unacceptable to me were I not legal.
As for the two of them expressing their feelings for each other, well, thats just what people in love do & he shouldn't feel threatened by that.

Me? I'd probably have to move on, both to give them space and to allow me to keep growing.
But thats just me.
Best of luck Mike, I hope it works out for all involved.
GWN
 
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Michael Phelps

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GreatwhiteNorth said:
Soc - we rarely disagree but I do see a very large potential prob in the Op's post. His cover is blown, an "unknown" person knows and that would be unacceptable to me were I not legal.
As for the two of them expressing their feelings for each other, well, thats just what people in love do & he shouldn't feel threatened by that.

Me? I'd probably have to move, both to give them space and to allow me to keep growing.
But thats just me.
Best of luck Mike, I hope it works out for all involved.
GWN
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Thats the problem is im not legal at all and the #1 rule is dont tell people, especially girlfriends.. If anything ever happens with them im going to get fucked for their relationship going south, not because of anything i did but because my cousin and her had a problem. Other thing is this girls brother sells herb and she told me all about it and who he gets his herb from and who some of the main guys in the city are, information that i dont think anyone should be sharing, i mean shit i didnt even ask or anything and she just started droppin names.. If she does this i have no trust that she wouldnt drop my name with some random person in a conversation..

GWN I dont feel threatened at all in the fact that they are happy together, i do feel happy in that sense for them.. I honestly just get sick of having to deal with the infatuation of their new relationship and their "love". He feels because they "love" each other it was okay to spew the beans about me growing.. The other problem is their is alot of stuff like ive said that makes my living situation uncomfortable, not to mention we all work together so im literally around this shit all fucking day long.. It just really has gotten old and i know this is just another thing thats going to come to pass.. First its puppy love, then its pointless arguments, then its uncontrolable fighting.. Once their infatuation where's off its just going to be another infatuated rushed relationship in the ditch and i know my cousin and that kid can be the most condisending person i know, kind of person that just saves up ammo forever and when the fuse snaps everything comes out.. Thats gonna be the point when all hell breaks loose, they are going to fight over who gets the dog, my cousin will win cause he wont ever let anyone win a fight or an argument. At that point she is going to drop our name and im gonna get busted or robbed when i never had anything to do with anything..

Shit i know alot of this is just me bitching, my bad, i really just do need to vent about the situation.

Btw GWN i am considering moving out, kinda wanna move out of state so hopefully their relationship can stay intact for a couple months so i can save money and figure out a new living situation..

Appreciate your thoughts..
 
kizphilly

kizphilly

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i went thur the same shit wit my brother to make a long story short me and my bro got into a fight then he moved out
 
SocataSmoker

SocataSmoker

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Michael Phelps said:
Literally i dont care about anything you say, I think your a system loving douche bag.. You get in more arguments then just about anybody on this forum... Also
you must have not read my whole fucking post asshole... The fact that he told her i grow pot!!!! How is that not a fucking problem? Consider yourself ignored socata cop...
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Well hell, if you two are living in the same house, would she not have found out about the pot eventually? What are you gonna do, stay home all day and guard the door?

These are the things you deal with when you live with someone else.

It sounds like you'd rather your roommate not have a girlfriend, just because you grow, which is completely wrong.

You should've thought of this circumstance BEFORE you even started growing.

As for everything else, typical idiotic ad hominem attacks...

And Socata cop? What's that? I don't work for EADS Socata... so I can't police the Socata's... sorry man.
 
jwn

jwn

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To the OP, get out of there as soon as you can. Those kind of women burn their men out fast and when that happens she will seek revenge and won't give a shit if you go down with your cousin/roommate. I've seen it happen a few times in my days. Good luck buddy
 
sarah22

sarah22

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your friend is a fucking moron dude. i'd hit him in the face for telling ANYONE about the grow. fuck the girlfriend, thats HIS girlfriend and has absolutely no reason to know about YOUR grow. your buddy deserves a broken tooth.

and if dude wants to keep having the girlfriend over every night and buying a new dog and shit...tell him to get the fuck out. tell him that you're uncomfortable with the living situation and if he wants more pets and for her to be over everyday then he needs to do that in his own place.

people can act so stupidly when they're "in love"...

although i will add just for fun that one of my best friends was engaged to her man 3 months after they started dating and about 4 months after they met. that was almost 5 years ago now and they have a really great relationship. so it does happen...where people get involved quickly and actually stay together :)
 
SocataSmoker

SocataSmoker

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sarah22 said:
your friend is a fucking moron dude. i'd hit him in the face for telling ANYONE about the grow. fuck the girlfriend, thats HIS girlfriend and has absolutely no reason to know about YOUR grow. your buddy deserves a broken tooth.
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LOL!!!!

Yes, beat his ass so you can acquire assault charges on top of the pot they'll find once he or she presses charges and rats on ya!

Great thinking, Sherlock!

Seriously... if you grow and live with someone else, DON'T beat their ass because as most folks with common sense would know, that only invites WAY more trouble.
 
Xrtnfx

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Michael Phelps said:
So my cousin/roomate has been dating this girl now for about 3 months, she is a chill girl, down to earth, likes to smoke bud, not really any drama(yet), thing is she kinda seems like the person thats never not in a relationship, always hearing stories about this ex or that ex, i dont know she is way cool but for some reason their really is just something i dont trust, i dont know what it is. Anyway i mean they literally have spent every single day together for the last 3 months, she is over spending the night every single night, I hear them having hella loud sex like twice a day.. Kinda gets awkward after a while.. Anyways point being they really are to the point where they say I love you and all that shit, he buys her everything, i mean new tires for her car, dinner every night, presents and all this other shit... I dont know what it is but that puppy love bullshit annoy's the hell out of me, it annoy's me to see my best friend of 21 years so fuckin love struck and pussy whipped.. I mean to the point where he already wants her to move in officially, talks about the possibilities of her getting pregnant and how he would be down to start a family and shit.. I mean i can see if this were like a 2 year relationship how those things might start coming together but 3 months is ridiculous.. His girlfriend is always looking at puppy's on the laptop in awe, just puppy's blah blah blah.. We already have a dog, cat, and turtle, i feel like im living in the animal kingdom as it is. Well he just called me and told me that he just bought a puppy for his girl.. Shit that just means one more addition to our already big enough animal kingdom.. Not to mention the drama over who gets the dog in the case of a break up..

Not to mention my cousin told her about how i grow pot in my room which fucking sucks more then fucking anything because now if anything at all happens with their relationship i have to stop growing, i wont risk the crazy ex-girlfriend trying to get revenge by telling the cops about my operation...

Fucking fuck puppy love, fuck i fuckin hate it..

Anyways just needed to vent
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Shit man, I can say I lived through the same deal. My roommate decided to go out with this girl who, for lack of a better term, I call a whore. He buys her all kinds of shit and she pretty much lives at my place now, using my electricity and water to do her clothes, dishes, etc... Very fucking annoying. The dude never was in a relationship before so he doesn't know how to control that girl. The problem is, it might be hard to talk to him about it, but seeing as you've been friends for so long I think he might like to hear what you have to say. Just try and be careful because pussy can do strange things to men, even ruin your friendship if he takes it the wrong way. My problem was never solved so I'm moving out and don't have to deal with that shit anymore. I hope things work out better for you
 
robert 14617

robert 14617

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maybe try damage control, tell your cousin to leak out the crop failed and your out of the grow game it was costing more than it was worth at least sit down and have a talk with him about running his mouth
 
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