Here we go - someone holler if you see anything amiss, or chime in with jargon I'm missing or misusing.
Looks fine - get 100kohm for Mean Well.
Linear taper style will evenly increase resistance from 0 to 100% of rating as you turn it.
Logarithmic type will only slowly increase at first before increasing fastest at the end - your volume knob on a stereo is probably logarithmic.
Either will work.
(The taper style for that part are Linear, and two versions of logarithmic: "audio", and "reverse audio" - see page 2)
Looking at the data sheet from Meanwell the dimming outputs look nice and even - so I'm getting linear as I think it should give nice even dimming across the dial. 25% on the trimpot = 25% driver output. Audio or reverse audio would be useful if you're expecting to make fine adjustments at very low or very high driver output.
There'll be a bunch of shaft options - which would be important for someone wanting the right height knob for a nice case. Get whatever you like, what you do with your shaft is noone's business but your own, lmao
Wiring -
Trimpots have three connections - the outsides are at either end of the 100kOHM coil resistor, the middle is the "Wiper" which moves from one end of the resistance coil to the other. Connect your dimming line to one side of trimpot and the wiper - have a play with it with your multimeter once it shows up and you'll see how it works.
Wiper is always in the middle - if you were to you connect to the "wrong" side of the trimpot your dimming knob will be working in reverse, and you can lol at how you're turning it backwards to increase the power. No drama.
tl;dr - 100K ohm, hook up to side and middle.