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Online Dating

greasemonkeymann

greasemonkeymann

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SoOLED said:
I have had some really great chats/text with guys, but in person they lack all social skills beyond ordering from Starbucks. complete dolts, their auto correct can spell better then they can pronounce words.

I don't smoke or drink and I don't work in the same cars I use for personal stuff. my house is other wise devoid of anything that might suggest anything. I keep a bong, n stuff for friends but that's it.

met my last BF on a online auto forum: then in person at an auto cross event 2011. him in his subaru sti and me in my lancer evo IV at the time. he asked me to marry him in 2013, and I told him everything he was shocked I could hide something like that for so long. I felt bad, but I had a sworn pact of confidence I wouldn't not break. for weeks he didn't believe me wanted me to show him. I wouldn't do it, what if he got mad and destroyed, told more people or whatever.

in the end, at my fault he said he couldn't trust me. he couldn't understand that it was not wholly my place to disclose information, that may effect other people, good people I have known and loved for over a decade.

so yeah, he started with some tart, and left me to my geriatric crew and their wives and kids.

some of you I know, cant just tell every stunt you meet, hey yeah man I'm a farmer check it out.

how long till you spill the beans.....
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sooooo..... you have a cute sister/friend/young mother?
Hot grandma?
Car-girls are HARD to come by..
 
sunni

sunni

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i met my husband online,. although i was not looking nor was it on an online dating website

it was world of warcraft. LOL but kinda counts since we did the whole online /long distance thing.

i felt it was safe, i know alot of people get worried about cat fishing or people who are saying they arent who they are. but with video messaging like skype and facetime, its hard to lie about your looks
if they dont ever wanna do the video messaging than i could see how you would be worried.
 
Singlemalt

Singlemalt

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sunni said:
i met my husband online,. although i was not looking nor was it on an online dating website

it was world of warcraft. LOL but kinda counts since we did the whole online /long distance thing.

i felt it was safe, i know alot of people get worried about cat fishing or people who are saying they arent who they are. but with video messaging like skype and facetime, its hard to lie about your looks
if they dont ever wanna do the video messaging than i could see how you would be worried.
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Yeah and look what happened; knocked up in a foreign country
 
K

ky man

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sunni said:
i met my husband online,. although i was not looking nor was it on an online dating website

it was world of warcraft. LOL but kinda counts since we did the whole online /long distance thing.

i felt it was safe, i know alot of people get worried about cat fishing or people who are saying they arent who they are. but with video messaging like skype and facetime, its hard to lie about your looks
if they dont ever wanna do the video messaging than i could see how you would be worried.
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sunnie online dating is great just don't do it on coke and vodka and weed or you could wake up a week later married.it happen to me back in my wild younger days.......ky...ps congrats with your babby and your hub...best wishes to all 3 of you.
 
a senile fungus

a senile fungus

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sunni said:
wait what happened?!
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I broke it off with her.

Edit: she didn't want the same things I did. She was too uncertain about our future together, to the point of negativity. I need some type of stability or certainty , especially if we're doing the long distance thing. All in all, she didn't really want to be with me, and I'm not one to be strung along. So I ended it, which surprised her, but I feel that she was secretly relieved.

It's all good, I'm going places, don't need baggage. I need a strong woman at my side, not an uncertain, unstable mess.

Good riddance!
 
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sunni

sunni

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a senile fungus said:
I broke it off with her.

Edit: she didn't want the same things I did. She was too uncertain about our future together, to the point of negativity. I need some type of stability or certainty , especially if we're doing the long distance thing. All in all, she didn't really want to be with me, and I'm not one to be strung along. So I ended it, which surprised her, but I feel that she was secretly relieved.

It's all good, I'm going places, don't need baggage. I need a strong woman at my side, not an uncertain, unstable mess.

Good riddance!
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I'm sorry to hear it ended in such a way you deserve nothing but the best you are a really great guy
And when the real girl comes along you two will be so happy :)
 
a senile fungus

a senile fungus

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sunni said:
I'm sorry to hear it ended in such a way you deserve nothing but the best you are a really great guy
And when the real girl comes along you two will be so happy :)
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Thanks Sunni! I appreciate those kind words.

Unfortunately, I put my everything into this one, and it's got me burnt out. I'm gonna be single for a while after this B.S...

But, I will admit, I downloaded Tinder, and tomorrow morning I'm having my beard trimmed by a lil cutie named Kayla :-)

Hey now, I've been lonely for a long time, don't judge me ;-)
 
sunni

sunni

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a senile fungus said:
Thanks Sunni! I appreciate those kind words.

Unfortunately, I put my everything into this one, and it's got me burnt out. I'm gonna be single for a while after this B.S...

But, I will admit, I downloaded Tinder, and tomorrow morning I'm having my beard trimmed by a lil cutie named Kayla :-)

Hey now, I've been lonely for a long time, don't judge me ;-)
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No judgements here mate :)
 
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