Fungus Gnat
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What your gf and her bf don't know can't hurt them. The saddest thing in life is regret, remember that when you think of this opportunity and you catch your current gf blowing her yoga instructor.
OK Girls (and guys) what can you tell me about this situation.
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Hookabelly
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Best post on here so far
bu$hleaguer
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Puffdat, any updates?
You seem like you're all in, man, or you wouldn't be posting this. I lost my wife a few years back because I cheated on her with a co-worker. I now am still with "that co-worker" 4 years later, and we're both happy as can be.
I went through a few years of intense regret and guilt, and I will say that Sunni was right when she said it above- it's a super shitty thing to do, to hurt another like that. I finally got over it and a huge weight was lifted when my friends told me my ex was getting remarried. She's happy again and moved on so the hurt pretty much evaporated.
But my advice is to learn what this chick has in mind, to see if you can figure out what her intentions are. If you both have the same intentions and you fall for each other, you owe it to your current gf to split things. You don't want to end up the douche when you go all anal on this hottie, rent a hotel room and smear the walls with your man goo and her clitty liter and then she disappears as fast as she came. Your gf will know you ravaged another chicks meat ring, she'll figure out at some point.
Find out if this chick would leave her man. If not, stay away.
You seem like you're all in, man, or you wouldn't be posting this. I lost my wife a few years back because I cheated on her with a co-worker. I now am still with "that co-worker" 4 years later, and we're both happy as can be.
I went through a few years of intense regret and guilt, and I will say that Sunni was right when she said it above- it's a super shitty thing to do, to hurt another like that. I finally got over it and a huge weight was lifted when my friends told me my ex was getting remarried. She's happy again and moved on so the hurt pretty much evaporated.
But my advice is to learn what this chick has in mind, to see if you can figure out what her intentions are. If you both have the same intentions and you fall for each other, you owe it to your current gf to split things. You don't want to end up the douche when you go all anal on this hottie, rent a hotel room and smear the walls with your man goo and her clitty liter and then she disappears as fast as she came. Your gf will know you ravaged another chicks meat ring, she'll figure out at some point.
Find out if this chick would leave her man. If not, stay away.
puffdatchronic
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No updates, as I say, and you say, I will bide my time and try and figure shit out. If i get more positive signals I'll know a bit better. Could be that she is just being friendly. I don't wanna build myself up to be let down.
My gf and I have been together 6 years, and for 3 of those I have had doubts. She quit her job when I got one and hasn't even looked for one in 4 years, has no ambition, nothing interesting about her. She is like the stereotypical 10/10 looker but nothing to offer any other way , only she isn't even a 10. Maybe a 7. I'm not shallow like I will only date hotties. We got got together, hit it off to start with, had a kid after 2 years and now I'm realising it might have been a mistake.
Even if she showed me she doesn't wanna be a jobless scrounging bum (her mother has leached off her dad for 30 years the same way) I would be hapy to stay, but there is just like, no insentive left for me to stay. I'm still with her for the kid mainly, and becauase I hate hurting people. But if and when I do leave, she will only have herself to blame.
So all in all, I am considering having a fling with someone at some stage, and If I can manage one with this stunner I will be happy as shit. But at the same time, I could be being played by this girl, seeing she has a bf. I'll just have to wait and see what sort of relationship develops... only known her for a few months ,for only 4 hours per week.... early days.
Hookabelly
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Your resolved is crumbling….Have you considered that if you break up your family over this then your kid will be living (most likely) w/ your g/f and a revolving door of different guys?
puffdatchronic
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Just because there's a kid does that mean I have to sacrafice 18 years of my own happiness just for some cultural concept of stability? It happens I'm sure he will be ok
UncleReemis
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its better to have split parents than ones who aren't happy with each other, yet still together...fighting every day
