looks like a dude to me but the pic is a little blurry. you should be able to let it go a little while longer to get a better look. it shouldn't drop pollen until it's fairly obvious. try to get a pic up that's more in focus.
i dont see balls yet. but the pic is blury. id wait a few days. Unless ur a breeder or jus oldschool i dont see a reason not to have fem seeds. it takes alot of the worry away..
Yeah, sorry man, those are the beginnings of balls, for certain. The easist way to tell, is the fact that those preflowers have 'stems'. Female preflowers are wider at the base, then come to a point, in a cone-like formation.