Ok, 1st things 1st...after 2 months she may be root bound and therefore the growth is stunted, transplant as suggested. 2nd when using fluoro's the lights can be close enough to touch the leaves, get her closer. 3rd Since as you say you want to do it right, please read, study, plan, and act. There is a wealth of great info to be had here at RIU and also plenty of how to vids on you tube. Here's one to get you started. Good luck!...
[video=youtube;dECnYjf5ABQ]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dECnYjf5ABQ[/video]