My Girlfriend

Hey guys,

This story is long so I will shorten it up a bit. When I first met "Betty" I was not smoking pot. As the years have gone by I started smoking and growing so I would not have to buy it. We've been dating for 5 years and I smoked all through high school and then stopped for a while. Its been about 2 years since I started up again and now I really want to tell her I smoke. I haven't because I don't know what shes going to think.

Now please don't ridicule me for lying to her and all that jazz. I just want your honest opinion about how to tell her the right way and the best way.

Thanks.

a relationship needs to be based with a certain amount of trust. Whats next?...lying about your masturbating to porn whenever she goes to bed early?

How dose she feel about those lame ass "potheads" ?

Just tell her or ask her to smoke with you one time and she what she says?

Don't be scared! JR

P.S. So what dose she think when your eyes are all glassed over and you have cotton mouth sooo bad. or is she just oblivious to all that is around her?

jesus of Cannabis said:

a relationship needs to be based with a certain amount of trust. Whats next?...lying about your masturbating to porn whenever she goes to bed early?

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Don't you think it's a little past that now, I mean 5 years of not being upfront with her, come on??

And people masturbate???

jrinlv said:

Don't you think it's a little past that now, I mean 5 years of not being upfront with her, come on??

And people masturbate???

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Na Its been 2 years not being honest and 5 years total we've been together.

Oh sorry only 2 years of keeping her in the dark.

So what do you think she will say, come on you know her better than anyone here.

Just spark up one time and see if she is cool and ease her into it....Good luck JR

Unless you vape it or shower between smoking up and being with her she already knows.

i told my gf.. didnt go too well
tell her, then smoke up with her

d1zl3 said:

i told my gf.. didnt go too well
tell her, then smoke up with her

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Lol.. I have to admit i was not expecting this much action on this post. I'm sure she knows something. I'm going to tell her or maybe just have a packed bowl... lol...

Suggest she have a girls night at your place and that you'd be happy to provide some "special cookies" for the occasion.
See how that goes over.

jesus of Cannabis said:

a relationship needs to be based with a certain amount of trust. Whats next?...lying about your masturbating to porn whenever she goes to bed early?

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get a life

Just tell her, she is your girlfriend after all and explain to her why you do what you do and you hated hiding it from her and that is why you are telling her now,and if she is an understanding girlfriend she will be glad that you trust her enough to tell her but all woman are fucking crazy anyway so who knows how she will take it

luckydog82 said:

Just tell her, she is your girlfriend after all and explain to her why you do what you do and you hated hiding it from her and that is why you are telling her now,and if she is an understanding girlfriend she will be glad that you trust her enough to tell her but all woman are fucking crazy anyway so who knows how she will take it

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You are exactly right. This is what I had already planned out. Thanks for your advice. I will keep you posted on when I tell her. Because I am going to tell her.

foily said:

You are exactly right. This is what I had already planned out. Thanks for your advice. I will keep you posted on when I tell her. Because I am going to tell her.

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Well the sooner the better once she knows you won't have to hide about your love of weed then you can introduce her if she wants to the joy of sex while high its Goooooooood well for me anyway

I had to start growing because my girlfriend was smoking all my shit.

Bitch is like a chimney.

Philo2 said:

I had to start growing because my girlfriend was smoking all my shit.

Bitch is like a chimney.

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Bitch would wanna blow like a fuckin chimney for smokin all my shit

wow, man honestly idk how you can date someone who doesnt smoke

Just throwing in my 2 cents.. I wouldn't dare date a chick who I thought would have a problem with me smoking herb. I guess my advice would be to tell her. one of three things will happen. If she freaks and leaves, you'll have to move on. If she's cool with it, then you can feel free to burn it. Who knows, she might be down too. Then there's the ultimatum, Stop smoking or I'll leave, at which point you'll have to decide what's more important, her or the herb. Good luck. I don't envy you.

just tell her you have something you wanna talk to her about.. dont lie anymore, come out with the truth. if she loves ya then hopefully she'll be understanding.. unless shes a stuck up bitch..