My first

this is my very first one. and what they look like. its in soil, no nutes just tap water.
i dont know the age but, i've had her in dirt for quit a while. please help me, so i dont fuck this up.

Looks like you're growimg oudoors. Either way that is beautiful looking girl you have there. Espeacialy with no hutes. She looks to be about three weeks into her flowering cycle. If you want to feed her now would be the time. Most people, including myself, start nutes around the 4th week of growing and feed through out the grow. You could ask 10 people here what to use and get 10 different opinions on what works best. Do a little reseaech on nutes, some where here there's a sub-catagory on nutes. Then you'll have enough info to choose the food and feeding schedule that you'll feel most comfortable with. Again splended work thus far, kudos to you friend.