My father is having a quad bypass in 12 hours

I'm sorry I just had to say that #I have no-one to talk to I would trade places with him in a second all I can do is wait. he is my father I am his son.

seeing your father in a hospital is a humbling experience. You just have to be strong for him. Take care of things around the house for him too while he is gone, show him the man he raised

I have not seen him in hospital he does not want to see me as he has a new life now with a new woman and she is cutting me off from him she has also taken a multi million business from under my feet, I don't blame him for any of it and just want to see him live on. this is so hard ffs.

I don't live with him and cannot access his house or do anything.

At least your father is not a fucking asshole.

My father is a great man and means the world to me.

is a quad bypass like clearing out your heart arteries..

He'll make it threw.

Straight up G said:

I'm sorry I just had to say that #I have no-one to talk to I would trade places with him in a second all I can do is wait. he is my father I am his son.

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Damn G! I'm sorry to hear that. I hope he pulls through it. Keep your head up and everything will be fine. This is becoming a fairly routine procedure. Good to see ya back man!

my dad and i were close, we were great together. but then he killed himself. hold on to your fada

Straight up G said:

My father is a great man and means the world to me.

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I hope everything works out for you G.

keep your head up man, my thoughts go out to you

2012 said:

is a quad bypass like clearing out your heart arteries..

He'll make it threw.

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Thankyou, I think it is

doc111 said:

Damn G! I'm sorry to hear that. I hope he pulls through it. Keep your head up and everything will be fine. This is becoming a fairly routine procedure. Good to see ya back man!

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Thankyou doc good to hear from you

Skate Hawaii said:

my dad and i were close, we were great together. but then he killed himself. hold on to your fada

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Very sorry

CdnBud said:

I hope everything works out for you G.

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Thankyou

prototypeone said:

keep your head up man, my thoughts go out to you

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Thankyou bro

He'll be alright bro. And you'll be alright bro.

My dad just had his third heart attack this winter. He has 3 stints in his chest now. I don't know if that's the same thing as a bypass or if it's similar, but it's serious surgery.

My parents had me when the were in their mid 40's, so they're old to me. That always made me sad, because I knew it meant that they will both die when I'm still fairly young and the thought of my unborn children not knowing their grandparents makes me even more sad. You just have to make the best of the time you have together and make sure that he knows you love him. Because once they're gone that's all you'll think about.

My advice is go see him before surgery and/or after he gets out if you can. I wasn't really talking to my dad when he had his heart attack and didnt see him until a couple months later. When he told me how that made him feel I couldn't help but break down crying. You'd be surprised ho much just a visit can help, I was.

best of luck to you and your dad.

Thankyou yeah means a lot he has a stint already in a few hours I will know if he is alive or dead.

he'll be good. my dad had a triple bypass 15 years ago (same day as ok city bombing) and he's still kicking today. he just turned 78 years old and is healthy as can be.

he has got through it and is in IC in recovery.

trust me brother i no how you feel i lost my father and brother within 2mnths shit sucks but life goes on cant dwell on the past

Great news man...

He will be fine.... 20 years ago... not so sure...but they have it down now...