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ReelFiles

ReelFiles

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I am 30 years old and my wife and I rent an apartment from her parents. They live upstairs from us and while my father in law is all about me growing, his wife thinks weed is the devil. I don't think you should generalize like that. I am sure there are plenty of grown ups sharing their home with their parents who might not be understanding.
 
Xrtnfx

Xrtnfx

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I will generalize, thanks. I did wait until I was out of the house to start smoking. If the owner of the house has a problem with you smoking marijuana then I think it is disrespectful to do so. I don't care if you're a teenager, I don't care if you're 30 years old, I don't care if you are 50 and still living with your parents.

If your parents smoke and/or don't mind if you smoke then go for it. If they do not want it then respect them.
 
ReelFiles

ReelFiles

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Actually my father-in-law is the owner so no disrespect there. So I am supposed to believe you were like "Gee, I wanna smoke that marijuana stuff but I won't because I live with my parents" Then you moved out and you were like "Now I can start getting high"..



 
Xrtnfx

Xrtnfx

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It was more like, I respect my parents so I didn't do drugs. When I moved out and got my own place I was like, I make the rules and started smoking some herb. Not that hard to believe hopefully.
 
ReelFiles

ReelFiles

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Xrtnfx said:
Respect is a hard concept to grasp I guess.
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For a pot smoking kid it is, that's why your story sounds so unlikely. A teenager who is considering smoking pot is VERY unlikely to turn it down out of concern for what his parents might think.
 
Xrtnfx

Xrtnfx

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I wasn't considering it though... That is what I am trying to say. I had enough respect for the rules about drugs that it didn't even cross my mind. Now That I am on my own I make the rules and I decided (through much research) that marijuana would not harm me therefore why not try it. I liked it and I still smoke it till this day...
 
ReelFiles

ReelFiles

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Well if you weren't even considering it, then you didn't not do it out of respect. You didn't do it because,supposedly, the thought never crossed your mind.
 
Xrtnfx

Xrtnfx

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Yes but the thought never crossed my mind becasue I respected them enough to not think about it.... When I go back and stay with them I don't smoke. Some times I visit for a few weeks, but I dont bring any MJ with me.
 
ReelFiles

ReelFiles

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I don't doubt that you respect your parents. But your story doesn't make sense; Either the thought never crossed your mind, or it did but you thought about it and decided not to. Respect doesn't control your thoughts. You think about things first then decide whether it's respectful according to the status quo.

This is how 99% of normal humans think:
A thought enters your mind, you consider whether to act upon said thought and last you either act upon it or not. The respect part comes into play when you consider the benefits vs the downside of said action. Your story doesn't follow the logical order of human thinking, therefore I call bullshit.
 
Xrtnfx

Xrtnfx

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looks like everything I say is going to be bullshit to you. That is okay though, I obviously cannot explain my side of the story well enough for you to understand so whatever. My original thought still stands. If your parents are against drugs and you worry they will find out ( as I guess the OP was getting at before we hijacked the thread) then don't smoke there. If (like you said) they are cool with it who cares then?
 
GrowSpecialist

GrowSpecialist

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ReelFiles said:
I am 30 years old and my wife and I rent an apartment from her parents. They live upstairs from us and while my father in law is all about me growing, his wife thinks weed is the devil. I don't think you should generalize like that. I am sure there are plenty of grown ups sharing their home with their parents who might not be understanding.
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His typing skills were extremely poor. That along with the "mum" shit is enough evidence for me.
 
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hahahehedavid

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just cause i havent moved out dont mean im young! lol
so besids telling me i shouldent smoke what should i do about it...
and my mum dosnt go thru my room just was putting the washing away and obviously saw it??
 
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