yea but i really dont understand now. My small plant had the same white hairs and no sack. But it just started to bud little balls all over but not on the node. That is where the pollen sack should be so you know if its a male or female correct?
I think it kind of looks female but is still hard to tell. If the balls you refer to are what is in your pic in post #4, those are not pollen sacks. I say sex is undetermined as of yet. Give it a couple more days.
Don't cut your plants! Haha, well basically anything that causes the plant stress may cause it to go male in a desperate hope to carry on it's genetics.
Also hermaphroditism may be determined in the seed.
Sorry, but I didn't even look at your first 7 pics. Plant is either fem or herm. If you have a 2x or 4x magnifying glass you might try to take a pic of the balls through that and post it.