male or female?

Hello.
First time grower here, need to know if i gotta kill this one. Got a nice lady growing next to it...

Sorry bout the crappy quality, cell phone cam

Aprreciate your help

hard to tell man.... what are your lights at rate now.... they may not be far enough into sexing the plant. some plants take up to 2-3 weeks after your lights are 12/12 before your able to sex your plant. those dont look liek pollin sacs, those still look like clusters of not formed growth yet. I once asked myself that on my first grow as well, but give it a bit of time and keep updated

to me, it looks like it hasnt started to flower yet. those pics all look like new growth, but it is hard to tell, theyre really blurry

not sure its a male it doesnt seem to be showing yet my plants took 6 weeks of veg befor any preflowers showed

Thanks for answering

I'm at 12/12 with two plants, and have been for about two weeks.
The other plant has shown pistils(?) for a week now, but this one is slower to mature i guess...

I'll just keep it going for a while and watch it closely