I don't suggest this at all ... because I'm as paranoid as they come!
But, you could send them to a safe location... Friends house, PO Box and so on.
By going that route, you have to weigh how your friends or whoever it is that stuffs the PO Box would deal with a worse case situation as compared to how you would deal with it.
I came up with this idea while I was out (driving time is good thinking time) and it's a sneaky one. Find out what the average delivery time for your location is from your seed-bank, order away, and when it gets close, take a trip out of town and have a neighbor collect your mail while you're gone.
However you go about it, just remember, no matter what the cops may say about something like this, as long as you have Plausible denial ability, you'll be in the clear.
But, more to the point, like most of the responses to this post and many posts like it... I think us first timers are getting worked up over nothing.
Still though, be safe and good luck!