It's either pot or me---choose. <--- how do you deal with this shit from a lover?

canuckgrow

Well-Known Member
he sounds like a controlling prick and he is judgemental. I would be gone in 2 seconds. women are better lovers.
Ummmm thats because you have never had the right male lover....We are not all selfish oafs in the sack......And dump the fuckstick that is bitchin he isn't even worth the agravation.
 

StonedPony

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SocataSmoker

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I would never in a million years be with someone who is that way about cannabis... she doesn't have to smoke (would be nice) but she can't be negative about me doing so either.
 

Saerimmner

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believe me if hes moaning bout it now its only gonna get worse with time, get rid of him n get with someone thats cool with it or knows to keep their mouth shut n not moan bout YOU smoking it
 

prototypeone

Active Member
the most recent girlfriend I had did not like smoking or people who smoke. Until I had her actually try it. She enjoyed it and never gave me crap again and would smoke with me on occasion. You can't be with some one who hates something that is something so important you. There are plenty of other fish in the sea as they say
 

redivider

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find someone who smokes. i had these problems a few times, as soon as they gave me shit for smoking i'd dump that bitch.

fuck it.... there's plenty offish in the sea....
 

Pipe Dream

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[video=youtube;S_-EEuTz4bs]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S_-EEuTz4bs[/video]

I told my girl when she met me I smoke weed. It's no secret, I told her never to hit me up with an altimatum (sp?) cuz it aint happening. I already said this in a similar thread, but like T.I. said. "you say you wanna kick it when I aint so high, baby it's obvious I aint your guy" so true. Besides, your a hot girl can't imagine you would not have other probably better options of people to date.
 

snapozz

Member
if its you and thats what you like, then tell them to hit the road. like my buddy is with this girl and she has no trust i mean none. she looks through his facebook and email and gets pissed if he is talking to another girl even if she is over 3000 miles away. i would boot anyone like that to the curb. just cuz the sex is good dosent meen you gotta stay .....
 

wrecknrob

Member
Vouch what the rest say. Too many times did I try to change myself for someone else just to realize 6 months later that I was wasting time. My girl doesn't like that I smoke, really not pleased that I grow, but knows better than to mention it - bug me about it out of the question.
Same here, my wife doesn't like that I grow, smoke or sell, but at the end of the day I keep her happy and she doesn't say shit which in turn makes me happy. Just one of those unspoken things, but like others have said, either they take you as you are or they can GTFO.......
 

MomaPug

Active Member
yeah, it just gets really fucking annoying when i hear someone say every.fucking.day,

"one day that's going to stop [smoking bud]."

"if this doesn't discontinue fairly soon [smoking bud], I can't be with you; I can't progress with this kind of lifestyle. I want to be mature and adult-like."

"suck down that bowl, that's all you know what to do these days."

"WOW. do you reeeeeally have to smoke a bowl before we leave the house? (YES, because I have to go to your fucking mom's house. lol)


yeah, it's piss poor.
The relationship is already ending, and it's not all about the weed. When someone who "loves you" starts talking to you so disrespectfully, making snide remarks...it's already at the end and only going to get worse.

He has shown you what an ass he can be, now you know what you would have to deal with whenever there was something you two didn't agree about. Has he stomped his feet yet?

The long and short of it, start planning the out....hope you have a nest-egg girlfriend. Good luck!!
 
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