is my plant a male or female

i bought my plant 2 weeks ago from a grower through my sister and i am afraid im plant is male i am not sure though
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Let's call it a girl for now.

what do you mean by that because this is critical because i am going to bring this back the the grower if it is male

Good luck on taking it back its not WalMart lol

please just answer the question and let me deal with it

[video=youtube;4vuW6tQ0218]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4vuW6tQ0218[/video]

i would call it a girl too.
Patience is going to be your friend give it a couple of days and let it settle in and she will flash you a sign .
And yes i am being serious .

Buy pink cigars!

thanks, i just needed reassurance btw i have had the plant for just about 2 weeks i got it right after it finished veg stage it has grown about 3-4 inches and the little buds there developed about 4-5 days ago the plant is a foot tall

definitely a girl

i now see what you guys are talking about i watched a detailed video about checking the sex of the plant and i see the buds are getting longer not fatter