where to start where to start...
first of all if you dont like it here, please be my guest and move to SoCal where all the 'cool' cities are, or back to Florida...lol.
People in any big metro area tend to be passive aggressive. Because they have to deal with stupid shit all the time and its not worth confronting EVERY SINGLE person that cuts you off or bumps into you on the street.
You think, generally, people in SoCal are cool?? Really?
You think, generally, people in Florida are cool?? Really?
The rain is a fact of life here yes, but what it gives us is the most amazing bouquet of plant and animal life you can imagine, including 2 of only 3 temperate rain forests on Earth.
It hardly gets cold here in comparison to most of the rest of the US. A little below freezing for a couple weeks max. With the marine weather you also get the chance of the odd 65 degree day in January.
Maybe you wouldnt need the city you live in to provide awesome beaches, endless entertainment etc etc if you just opened up, stopped judging the people around you and made some friends to hang out with. But with the attitude you currently have towards the city you live in I doubt you will find any friends or happiness here.
I have lived in several places in the US and in Europe, I think Seattle ranks as one of the coolest cities I have lived in. The main thing about it is its not trying to appeal to people like you. You have to appeal to it.